A person to talk to

I realize people say it's "selfish". But a person who wants to commit suicide isn't doing it to hurt they're family. They're doing it because for some reason, whether it's bullying or just depression, they don't want to live anymore
 
Suicide may be a self-centered thing to do, but think of the people who actually think about doing it.

Life isn'r easy, and there are a lot of people/kids that suffer abuse an or neglect everyday. They even get bullied. :/


Do you really want a life where you're ignored by your friends and family and get beat up by your parents? Or even get harassed by your peers and teachers?


I don't really think so.


Sure, there are other ways to solve it, but sometimes things get a little bit too harsh.


I don't agree with suicide, but I guess that to them, suicide is the only option...
 
Nicely said.

Suicide often comes after trying to fix everything, it's giving up on trying to be happy and accepting the fact that pain and sadness will be all that is felt untill the day you meet death, and on that day even feeling nothing is better than feeling the constant negative emotions of being alive.


Notice how i said 'often', that means that not everyone feels that way.
secil
 
Alot of people self harm, and for those people who tell them to stop, dont,....its better to see a counseler and slowly ese your way out of it, for most selfharmers who just stop, when they get upset or desspessed, they reach to cut but stop and think no, evently they kill themselfs bc they have so much emotion building up insode them that they just snap, its a moment of panic, wether its slitting, bridg jumping or hanging its normaly in the moment and they cant help then selfs, it might be selfish but we dont stop to think about tge concequences...they just want it over, they hate there life, themselfs, the world, so much that they kill them selfs! do you not think that you should say something a little moor caring than calling them selfish! xx you have no idea what its like xx
 
I used to cut and the biggest mistake i made was telling someone. They totally over reacted. T.V makes self harm look a lot worse than it is, and to be honest i didn't get much help from my mum anyway so i ended up stopping by myself. I find it annoying how people tell self harmers to tell someone and it will help, but other people can only give a certain amount of help, the only person who can truly help you is yourself. anyone can follow me if u need to chat.
secil
 
i meant a coulseler i told a mate and she told my whole year i freaked out punched her an got my self expelled...but at my new school i told the counseler and its her job to help, but some people can stop on there own, but when people tell them to stop, or pressurise them by saying its wrong, you shouldnt do it ect..its not good to say that, and most selfharmers need to self harm xx
 
I said most, and i ment when people pressuirise them, i got to a group counsler meeting and one girl ther got told by a friend to stop cuz it was stupid and she was achiving nothing,....she killed her self not long after , some one told me to stop and i attemped suicide bc of that, i new a lot of people who commited suicide it was 'normaly' like that, not always but normaly, xx
 
I use to cut a lot ,but only like 2-4 months. I stopped because I want to be a better example for my brother. It took me a while ,but I stopped. People who kill themselves have reasons. It's not like they meant to hurt anybody... They did it because they might of been having some issues with friends/families/bullies etc.
 
Ok im just gonna set this straight,
not all self harmers commit suicide
but some who get pressured to stop get a build up of emotions a do, i was just saying dont pressure people into stopping bc it can make people worst...SOMETIMES :) okay cuz i think a lot of people misunderstood what i was trying to say xx
 
And josies right, people have good resons amd dont mean to hurt people, bc if you killed your self just to hurt someone...well....its not worth the wast of your life xx
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top