30 Days Of Giveaway Cheers!

My father always tells me: “You get what you give” so if you are nice, peiple will be nice to you. If you dont be nice, people wont be nice to you. I try to be as nice as i can

 

My little brother’s advice to me ?

If others can do it, then let them do it. It’s ok to be lazy at least you’re not tired.

 

My boyfriend, pretty frequently in the past, has had to calm me down many times while he’s been at work through text. I keep a lot of them. This one may seem harsh to some at first, but one that I love is;

“I don’t care how you see yourself in the bad moments. When you are stuck in your head and beating yourself down, that isn’t you. Do you know what’s you? When you spin around in a new dress and ramble about how pretty it makes you look or when you’re looking at yourself in a mirror and I squish your cheeks together which makes you say “I guess my chubby cheeks are okay”. I need you to understand that when it gets bad, that is not you. You can be happy and are happy now, understand? You wake up and greet life now. You go about your day pointing out beautiful parts of living now. And when you get in bed to sleep, you settle down with me and you count the stars instead of cry. Right now you’re just someone who had to pull over because the rain got too bad, but you’ll see the smallest chance and be the one to start driving again, because that is who you are.”

Sorry it’s long, I just feel like it would be odd with missing parts. It just means a lot to me, and I read it when I start getting bad if he’s not here, because it’s very easy to let sad thoughts take over and think “well I’m never getting better”, when that’s proof that it is better.

 

My mom used to always tell me if you hang around with people who aren’t going anywhere you won’t go anywhere as well. It took a while for it to sink in. But now as an adult I realize I don’t need those friends who take and take and don’t give back. I don’t need those friends who only want to smoke and do nothing. I don’t need those friends who don’t want to improve. I need people around me that inspire me to be better and to go out and do things. My friends I do art with, go explore outside with, who genuinely care about my well being, who call me out on my bs. If I hang around with people who don’t care about me I won’t care about myself. I had to learn the lesson the hard way. But she was right. You become a lot like the people you give your time and energy to and you don’t want those to be negative people with no ambitions. Otherwise you’ll be the same.

 

Some words I have been told that have stuck with me,
Life may be difficult now, you may not feel like you are getting anywhere and you are stuck in first gear. You don’t feel like anything is going right for you, and like you should give up because you aren’t going anywhere. But that is when you put in the most effort, you try your hardest to make sure you succeed. You work towards a better tomorrow and to make sure you have what you need to succeed in life. When everything feels like it is going wrong, don’t give up. Try and one day you will get there and everything will be better.

 

Life is short so smile while you still have teeth 

 

My nana told me not to take any wooded nickles unless u get them from a parade, to get out of her way before she made me a speed bump with teeth and that my dad was dumber than a box of rocks and twice as heavy i didnt get it then i do now lol

 

This isn’t really common advice but my dad told me that he dropped out of med school to own a pizza place because med school was hard. Now he says that owning a business is even harder and if he would of stuck in med school he would be retired and living easy by now instead of still working.
So the advice is that even tho something may be hard and you think you cant do it. Think of the little bit of hard work now to have a easy life down the road.

 

I've gotten little lessons in life from each person I hold closest to me:
My mom always told me it's better to be hated and have a few friends bc you're just being yourself.
My husband tells me everyday I'm the strongest woman he knows and no matter what life throws at me...I got this
My dad always told me to love myself and be neighborly to others.
My brother is just a goof who loves fashion and tells me to wear whatever makes me feel good bc I'm not killin it unless I'm feelin it xD

 

There are so many words that are so precious in my heart, but the one which overtook all happened recently.

I found a love for me few days ago, and wen I asked her whether I deserve someone so sweet as her, all she said reply was "No matter whatever flaws u have, I will accept all of you" and those words stuck deep in my heart ?

(My boxing day is all about soccer fixtures back to back ?)

 

He went through the same phases as mermaid man and barnacle boy, a series of event , from popping popcorn all the way to falling into a pit of nuclear waste, watching a movie,... or he just found a magical cape like the magic rug in Aladdin....

 

So one thing that has always struck with me, for some unknown reason is something my uncle once said to me: If the balls don't touch, it's not gay.

 

If you decide something and the outcome is bad, you better know where to exit.

 

“it’s only illegal if they catch you” - not necessarily wise words.. but it sticks with me for some reason lmao

 

I once had a teacher who said that I was like a little bird in the corner of a cage and that he just wanted to kick me out.

My initial reaction was:  rip me

But I understand what he was trying to get at. I was that kid that never really spoke. I knew what I was doing but I just never participated in class.

'Kicking the little bird out of its cage' was an odd metaphor, but it was refreshing. He reworded an overused, boring saying like 'breaking out of your shell' into something that really stuck with me.

This is so meaningful to me because it's a big part of who I am today – I'm still someone who doesn't talk much, but now, I love to speak.

 

He is hiding a Nimbus 2000 inside his pants.

 

oh no rynn this question has made me write an essay. like. it’s a lot. im sorry in advance omg. (*cough cough* blame my bf because he was the one reciting the story and I got more mad as I listened so there’s a lot of extra shít)

 

Take this recent and extremely long one because idk when to stfú I’m sorry for writing seven pages constantly
sorry in advance bc this is 90% my bf again lol

Me and my bf ik ik “every time it’s her damn bf” I’m sorry we’re practically attached lmao rarely go to nice restaurants to eat out, but recently, we got early tickets to see Aquaman. I don’t get majorly dressed up for the movies, idc how fancy the place my bf picked out is. I simply took a giant t-shirt from the closet insert my bf now yelling are u calling me fAT?! as he’s reading this bc it was his shirt with a pair of leggings. I brought a jacket too ofc, it’s freaking coLd. And off we go! My bf was in generally the same outfit but with jeans because,, yeah,,,,,

The first thing that happens when we get there and are greeted by the seating dude is “miss, how old are you?” Ok look. I know I’m small. I’m sOrry. But why does it maTTER we didn’t ask to sit at the bar so???? I said 18, had to shOw my ID, and then we were seated. Now.. The waiter wasn’t slow, woohoo great, but ohh boy ya got a big storm comin. Whenever we get booth seats, we both sit on one side. I sit on the inside. This is just the normal thing. We like holding hands okay- pls don’t judge us like our gReAt waiter Charlie.

I asked for water, my bf asked for his usual of any brand of orange soda bc he’s weird. You know what he got from Charlie? “Are you sure you want that?” and a rather rUde look. I was ready to jump the table right then. My bf throws back a “you’re right! let’s go ahead and get two glasses of it.” It’s like my bf just knEw tonight would be like this.

So. He comes back with the ThReE glasses and I’m still deciding on the food. He comes back..still deciding. He comes back again, “do you need help? It’s in basic English, nothing fancy..” he says with an awkward look that can only translate to “is this girl fùcking dumb” CHARLIE. IM- but I already decided. We order and take our time eating and talking, we went to an early dinner for a reason.

We were probably there for 30 minutes or so now. I’m not even passed the halfway mark on my salad. Oh no Charlie is back. Please no. “Are you both done with your meals yet?” YET?! yEt? Charlie I know you saw me shovel a massive forkful of lettuce into my mouth not even two minutes ago because I almost choked from being freaked out that you were glaring at us from afar. 1. Don’t judge me for the big bites. Adult forks are large and I am not. 2. We got our food maybe 15 minutes ago gO AWAY- we say no and go back to eating and my poor bf is about to blow up. He can take a rude server when it’s him and some buds but once I’m thrown in, he’s hilariously easy to anger.

Wonderful Charlie comes back and now I’m flipping stuffed bro. So his “done now?” and forced smile are met with a yes. He responds by taking our plates and saying he’ll get the check, but no no no. We spotted a vegan cherry pie on that menu and, while I had forgotten, my bf didn’t. “Actually, let’s get four slices of the cherry pie” FOUR?! Is he trying to make me explode?! But I get a dumb squeeze on my hand telling me to stay quiet. And here comes Charlie, yet again with his beautiful responses.. “Uh, I don’t think that’s a good idea. You both ate your entire dinner, and I don’t think your girlfriend there would want more food..” he says it like somehow the food isn’t meant to be eaten- “Shoot, you’re right again. How about you get the four slices AND the owner? If they aren’t here, then the manager will do.” says my bf with a tone that even scared mE. Charlie’s face drOps and he practically rUNS to the back.

My bf went OFF about Charlie to the owner. Insert quote from my bf: “The waiter was rude and obviously shaming us for eating, and also made my girlfriend extremely uncomfortable by glaring at her for minutes at a time, multiple times. His comments about how much food we were eating and rude comment to my girlfriend when she was struggling to pick something were absolutely unnecessary. She is recovering from an eating disorder, and things like this can land her in the hospital. Is that understood? I don’t think you want this information being spread in the surrounding area and on any website pertaining to rating your business.”

and then we got our meal for free and the owner gave us his number for our own reservation service for the next time we came and had us leaving with an entire cherry pie (ily Moe and Charlie u suck)

 

I ordered furniture to be brought and delivered once. When they showed up, they started unloading and started to put the dresser up when I noticed they had the wrong furniture. When I said something they wanted to argue with me that this was what I ordered, eventually after they took the wrong furniture away I got to spend time on the phone to get my correct furniture. They ended up wanting to charge me extra for bringing me my correct furniture eventhough they made the mistake. Finally they waved the fee and set up and time to deliver the correct furniture. Well the time came and it arrived only to find the mirror that attached to the dresser was broken. That company gave me such a massive headache.