I do spend my own money. But, if she wanted to get me something, why ask what I want then get something completely different...?
It was because I was diagnosed with Bi Polar and refused to be drugged up. She couldn't handle it. So made me move out. JetBoy understands.
Don't throw ur mom under the bus now that ur getting negative feed back. Moms aren't perfect neither are dads. Heck no one is. But not excepting her gift was wrong...could hung it in ur garage that's ur man cave seems how u spend lots of time building your car...oh dad don't forget that's money u take from ur kids education etc. So does that make u a bad dad and ur kid should say oh sock em bop em don't like or need it take it back hmmm js op ur wrong on many levels
How am I taking money from my kids? Because I can afford to build myself a car? That doesn't make any sense. You don't know my financial situation so don't even try and use that against me. The only thing I hang in my shed is tools and car parts. No room for anything on the walls. And, a "Man Cave" is where you go to drink beer and relax. In my shed, I am constantly working in there. You wouldn't have it hanging in your place of work.
Youre still selfish to me. If you dont appreciate what you are given, i dont believe you should even get what you want.. Its pure selfishness, and you just dont appreciate. Even if she did shut you out, it was still more appropriate if you just accepted it, and be respectful about it. I got tons of things from different people that i received as a gifts that i dont even use. Somewhere in my closet. Just say thank you. You could even donate it after awhile.
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I don't care if I got nothing from her. I mentioned that above. But, the face that she asked me then got me something different is why I gave it back. I have 0 use for it. It would be like me asking you if you want something from the shop and you're like "yeah, can you get me some eggs and bacon?" So I come back with "tissues and a jar of mayonnaise.
Actually, thats difference. You are talking about christmas here. If it was a condiments needed to make dinner, or whatso, obviously, ill be upset. But christmas GIFT. You cannot expect to get what you exactly want. It is a gift, and that is something given by someone, and they dont even need to know what you want. OP, you asked our opinion, and we are giving it to you.
She was probably concerned with your mental health. At least she cared enough to want to help you. You probably need meds. I have bp too and I know what happens when I'm off. It doesn't matter if it has a use or not, at least shes alive, healthy, and got you something which I bet she bought because she thought of you when she saw it. You honestly deserve nothing. Anyone who treats their mother that way deserves to be alone. I don't care what she did. We were all taught honesty but obviously you have no heart cause you're literally a Grinch.
If my kids did it to me, I would understand and I would go exchange it for something else that they want. It's what us as parents do to keep our kids happy. My kid are always happy. They have great manners and are kind to everyone, like I am. I honestly see no problem in what I did whatsoever. You all have obviously been told to lie, even when something you get is useless to you. Why keep it? It's going to sit there and do nothing. Why not give them the opportunity to return it to wherever they got it from and they can keep the money?
One time my mom gave me this thing she knit. It was in a frame. It had no use to me but she took hours making it and we weren't the wealthiest family so it has great sentimental value. Christmas isn't about the best gifts or how much money someone spends on you, its about family being there and taking the time to get you something.
That your mother gave you. But maybe she should return that too if you're so ungrateful? Obv useless to you.