Well, obviously you like girls. And just girls. I would just go for what YOU want. Everyone's problem is they care way too damn much about what everyone thinks. And a girl can be "the man" in a relationship. It's called, "Cracking the whip" so. Be like me, date younger. They're easy to break in and control. But, you have to understand that sharing is caring. As in even if you get with a girl, you still need to let her be in control sometimes. No one likes a control freak.
From the looks of it, it seems to me as if you're more happy dating girls but you want to experiment and see if dating guys could be your thing. Honestly, I think if you enjoy dating girls more than guys then you should just do it and not worry about how other people feel about it because in the end if you're not truly happy then there's really no point in being in the relationship.
Seven years of ballroom dance (five of teaching); Have a car; Doh! No job! Well, shucks was so close. Just handle things as they come along. Try to improvise and enjoy figuring yourself out. ^_^
I'm here for ya girl, be yourself don't change who you are to be a people pleaser!! I have been there, done that. My parents are very accepting now of me dating other men. Did it take them a while, of course! No ones parents are really fully prepared to have a gay child. But guess what, it's reality, eventually they will come around. I promise!! Much love stay proud!
I agree with what most ppl who posted here were saying.. if you have nothing for the guys, then why force yourself figuring something out? Like what's the point of even trying when in the first place you knew you are interested with women.. Being a lesbo or a gay is nothing to be ashamed of.. you dont have to adjust for ppl to accept who you are.. do what makes you happy and free.. i kno it is not easy, you are facing a crisis here.. i'm really glad you opened up, keep your head up high..
okay so here's my two cents.... you definitely feel like you are confused. you like girls but there's still something that makes you feel... maybe, awkward/guilty? (your mom asking you questions making you feel uncomfortable, your dad being religious and not knowing about dating other girls, etc) so naturally, you'd want to see if dating a guy works because it's "normal" and your mom wouldn't ask awkward questions and your dad would love to meet him. but. you can't always make your parents happy and hopefully they will love you unconditionally no matter what. I know many people who had difficulty coming out to their parents and yes, it can be hard on parents, especially religious ones, but that's when the parents/child work through it. I know people who've come out in high school and some who wait til college or even after. just whenever feels right for you, but regardless, if you do decide you're gay, I hope you feel like you can tell your dad and work on that relationship with him whether it's a year from now or 5 years. he may be more understanding than you think! as for dating RIGHT NOW, I would assume you're still in high school? (sorry if I'm wrong) no matter if you're dating a guy or girl, you're always going to have those relationships where you're not sure if it "feels right." it's a part of dating, and it's a lot more common in high school when you're kind of "practice dating for the real world (after high school," as one of my middle school teachers once said. BUT if there is something that just doesn't feel right, that feeling probably won't go away. maybe it's the guy or maybe it's because he IS a guy... that's probably something to think about. anyways, I hope you figure out you're confusion. I had a lot of guy friends in high school who I knew well before they ever came out and their situation was pretty close to yours, even after coming out! it's hard, especially because there's so much hate and criticism that sometimes it feels easier to just try to be straight, but you are who you are and those who love you will love you regardless! best of luck and sorry this is so long! xx
that's what's wrong with women. Set standards. What if his car has broke down and he hasn't saved the money for a new one? Now he out of the running for the position. Or if he just lost his job due to circumstances out of his hand. Same goes for him. But, it's ok to be lesbian....if your hot.
I think it's sad that your parents would get in the way like that. I'm sure if you told your mum she'd understand.
I think you should just write down general qualities you look for. Just find a person male or female ,and see how you feel. Someones sexuality isn't always so black and white, many of us fall in-between different shades of gray. Date many people, keeping those qualities you're really looking for in mind. You may just find yourself with a totally different person in general. Always remember to live your life and do what makes you happy, you only have one life. Your life may not always be easy ,but it's yours to live.
I do find ppl not hetro a little fixated on their sexuality. It's like their whole world rotates around their fun organs. Thats my bias I guess. I'm at a party and this chick comes up to me and tells me she's gay. Well whipidoo I thought. What she expect a dang medal, I could give a ratz ass if she was into sheep. Your confused, how about your future partners. More to life than sex op.