Fr. 80% of the ppl I get along best with end up being junkies or ppl w severe mental illness. Which, not a big deal, but i don't wanna be involved in their stuff =[
Oh. Well, I don't do it consciously. It's not like I think "I'm not feeling this any longer so let me be mean to them." It's more like I just fall back some, and they typically think I'm talking to someone else. Which, I'm not. I don't cheat. But, sometimes you need a little break without actually breaking up. Ya know? Like, just to give it time to see if you're just having a moment and feelings are still there.
I get that, I’ve done that with friends before. I think you just gotta learn to tell you partner that you need some time to be alone and process how you feel when you get that way.
Maybe that i’m an occasional hoe🤔 but also on a serious note: that I let someone use me cos I love that person even if I know he just coming to me when he’s bored.
Trying not to judge tf outta you rn and failing. I still laik you but lemme add this behavior to my pet peeves