Okay so everyone knows for the most part looks matter to us guys but why do women deny this when it comes to them. They never like my pics. They never reply to me when I message them and I know its because my looks. Because I'm damn confident and funny and outgoing. So women cut the BS and explain yourselves please.
It's their opinion. Women will not change for you hahaha maybe this thread will make them dislike you more
Looks matter, and if someone tells you they don't, they're full of it. In saying that... physical attraction is subjective, and often a good personality can create physical attractiveness (online relationships are a good example of this), and vice versa which is less fortunate. What floats your boat may not float the next person's. It's just a matter of finding someone who is into whatever you look like, eg. Some women prefer dad bods, similar to the guys who say "only a dog wants a bone." Personally, I don't care about weight. But I have preferences when it comes to facial structure/hair etc. Strong/chiselled jawlines, defined arm forearm and calf muscles, and shorter messy hair do it for me. I'm a lesbian... Stereotypically, women with those features aren't extremely feminine. Thus, my selection is limited, and I'm not going to pretend to be into someone feminine just to save their feelings. If I'm being honest, from my own experiences, feminine presenting women have personalities I don't enjoy, and interests I'm not enthusiastic about, so overall, nothing I'd be attracted to even if I got to know them. So yes, I judge based on looks when it comes to romantic relationships. As I'm sure a lot of others do. It's not a big deal. Just bide your time... someone will notice you and be all about everything you are. Don't beat yourself up over bad experiences... not everyone is the same.