My S/O got me to play this game and she got a male avatar from this avatar box... So I grind out these dumb points to get the avatar box and give it to her. Shocker, you can't in this cash grabbing pos game. Oh, I also get the female avatar... What type of bs is that and why can we not switch if it's the same avatar essentially. That's completely stupid...
Your avatars looks does not effect your game. If people could pick and choose what they wanted then ata would lose money. Its a part of the game. Random luck. If you want the other avi then get more drops. Not hard
The game wasn't coded for it. To work in that kind of coding would shut the game down for, at the very least, a few hours. ATA would lose money, and players would freak out like crazy. You just gotta grind some more, grow some more, and eventually you'll have more avis than you know what to do with. Some people have 500+ in just a couple years, so it's not impossible, but it is hard going at first. However, they have implemented a sort of "trading" system for avatars. Surely you've seen people in chats talking about zodiac, Greek god, and birthstone shards. These will make the male/female avi that you want, but those will also require a bit of grinding and a lot of selling stuff to buy them (but some people are kind enough to gift them, and the prices for birthstones are pretty cheap right now). Also, if you need any advice at all, there are tons of larger stat players who are open to letting you know some tips and tricks to make your growth easier and faster and hopefully you won't give up this "cash grabbing pos game" so soon!