What is love

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by Nemo, Apr 25, 2019.

  1. I'm a Cancer. I've had 3 "real loves" in my life. I don't really believe in the whole "zodiac sign compatibility" stuff, but readings have always been quite a bit accurate for me. This is just for boredom fun, basically. Please don't judge me. Also, may be a long read.



    I'll start off with my first, then second, and lastly my current love.

    The "loves"



    The first was a Libra.It was long distance, we lived a state apart. We were together for almost 3 years. A few words that describe the relationship is: honest, hopeful, exciting, and emotional. We talked 24/7. We shared everything with eachother. It was a very emotionally open and vulnerable relationship. We talked about having kids someday, moving in, and anything that had to do with a possible future. I was young at the time and even though I loved this person, I also was stupid. I made some bad choices that potentially ruined the trust in the relationship. I hurt them really bad. We ended because we lost romantic feelings for each other.

    The second was an Aries.Also long distance, but EXTREMELY long distance. We were together for about 7-8 months. A few words that describe this relationship is: erratic, sexual, dramatic, and intense. We had the same outlook on alot of things. We shared similar passions in life. We loved hard but eventually fell harder. We also both had alot of baggage coming into the relationship. Ultimately, it became emotionally abusive on both sides. It had to end.

    Lastly, my current love is also a Cancer. This relationship came very unexpectedly. We've been together for 1 year and 5 months so far. A few words that describe this relationship is: safe, caring, calm, and courteous. Although we have similarities, it's in our differences that really allow us to cherish eachother. We embrace our individuality, yet take comfort in our inseparable love for one another. We try to never take any moments together for granted.

    Compatibility Test



    Cancer x Libra: (28%) Probably the biggest restriction in the relationship between Cancer and Libra is in things they want from their partner. Cancer wants someone responsible, to take them by the hand if needed and complement their emotional nature with practicality. Libra wants someone who is full of life, energized, strong and full of initiative to follow their ideas. They can really disappoint each other if any expectations are set wrongly at the beginning of their relationship. The best way for them to build a love that is to last, is for both partners to hold on to their independence whatever happens. If they focus on love and worry about earthly things each on their own, Cancer could “compromise” on heavenly love, as much as Libra would like to have a family.


    Cancer x Aries: (47%) This relationship can be painful for both partners and needs a lot of work put into it in order to work. It requires both of the partners to adapt and make changes in their behavior, while tip toing around each other most of the time. It is not an easy road, but the rewards are such inner understanding of passion, full of emotion and the ability to create something truly unique. If they succeed, they will probably never be satisfied with a different partner.

    Cancer x Cancer: (85%) Cancer is a sign of genetic inheritance and it is sometimes difficult to reconcile the genetic predispositions of two Cancer partners. However, their mellow nature, ability to feel and have enough compassion for each other, makes them great candidates for marriage, children and the whole picket fence scenario.
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  2. Damn, that's crazy im an aries
     
  3. Baby don’t hurt me
     
  4. I was hoping somebody would do this LOL
     
  5. You’re welcome
     
  6. I'm a Libra.. and I feel like I can relate to some of the stuff you wrote.
     
  7. Mine was an Aries. I’m coincidentally an Aries too so our compatibility was about 65%.

    “Hence, there might be a lack of true human interaction in this segment of relationship. Their thoughts must be turned to their partner with no exception if they plan for their sexual relationship to work.”

    This was probably pretty accurate, because the beginning or our relationship was incredibly amazing. Since the two of us were fire signs, we were always adventuring or overall just having a great time. But by the end we basically both felt burnt out and just decided to go our separate ways. Our problem was essentially due to a lack of being able to communicate feelings in words. Probably for the best.
     
  8. That's understandable. Honestly, I can't imagine two Aries being together. I feel like that's an awaiting Armageddon to happen.
     
  9. It was a fiery mess quite honestly. Very exciting, but a true wreck 
     
  10. What a small world
     
  11. Wow I’m a caprisun
     
  12. That sounds delicious
     
  13. I cackled.
     
  14. I am an aquarius, I don't believe in daily horscopes but the traits always have me slightly believing but then there's the barnum or forer effect, so I don't really believe in it. But it's always fun to read ?
     
  15. Write this in a paper and send it to me so i can throw it in the trash bin
     
  16. I get told by a lot of edgy zodiac white girls that myself, the libra, and my fiancé, the scorpio are a terrible match and that we shouldn’t even be together. If anything the zodiac thing just pisses me off and gives people an excuse for acting like assholes.
     
  17. I'm judging you
     
  18. What is love? Baby don’t hurt me.... don’t hurt me... no more ? 
     
  19. April fools day