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*Livkat28 (01)

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okaay so i am goin out with a kid named ryan. i really like him alot but me and my ex bf broke up like a week bfor. i rlly want to still be friends with him(his name is aidan) but sometimes he will be like i love u liv please can we get back together and stuff. one time he was yelling at me naming all the reasons i shuld change and it made me really upset. then 2 mintues after he said he was sorry and that he regretted saying that. ryan is the sweetest guy ever and i completly love him. i broke up with aidan a few times and we wuld get back together. i love aidan as a friend and i dont want to see our friendship fail like this. please help me. today he said tht he hated me for being happy with ryan. i then started to cry bcuz i thought tht he was going to get into our relationship and try to break us up. i told aidan how happy i am and that im finally not depressed and that this ia good for me and he said alot crap after about that he hates me and regrets going out with me. Please help me :( im sad
 
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Life is about being happy. Be with the person who makes you happy. Sounds like you and Ryan have a love/hate relationship. He probably somewhat realizes that he has lost a good girl to be with. Don't let others put you down and demoralize you.

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I think you should stay with Ryan. If he makes you happy and things are going great why throw that away? I know you said that you still want to be friends with Aidan but right now is probably not the time. Maybe later on down the line when the feelings are no longer I the way the two of you can commence your friendship. Right now what you need is probably some space from each other. Also if he's treating you badly and saying hurtful things why do you want to continue that? Don't feel like a bad person for wanting to be happy.
 
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