Stop and Think

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by BeautifulPain, Jun 20, 2014.

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  1. Ok. The point of this thread isn't to draw negative attention or rude hateful remarks. I am just wanting to get some things off my chest and figured it was time to address them rather than sit and let anger and hate consume me everyday.

    I, of course have done and said things I am not proud of for which I do apologize. I have been rude and ornery to several and have even made fun of a few. But one thing I haven't done is make personal attacks or spoken ill of anyone or their family. I see no point in this as we are all unique individuals that all have our own issues.

    We all play this GAME for our own reasons and some just to chit chat. But lately I've noticed more and more animosity and hatred on here. Ok so some come on here to rp, meet new people, party, have a pimd "family" or whatever. Who are we and what makes us any better to sit and judge or tell someone how to play the GAME the way we think or want them to? We definitely play the way we want, do we not?

    One thing that really bothers me is how someone or someone's can sit here and dictate to a club or clubs who can visit and who can not. Ok so yes there's a big sfw going on. Some don't want to even be bothered so they leave the club. Why not accept that and move on to the ones who haven't left? Why is it ok for your members to leave and visit or party with other clubs but it's not ok for the opposing side? What makes you any better than the next?

    Ok so another thing. These personal attacks on people. I do not understand why anyone finds it necessary to make such attacks on someone. Ok so one doesn't look attractive to you, but does that give you the right to talk rudely about them? This person likes the same gender, should they be chastised for it? I am not saying everyone should be accepted or "liked" but do we find it necessary to make such personal attacks on one? Truth is, we don't really know what each person deals with on a daily basis. We don't know about their home life or the trials and tribulations each face. A lot get to know one on a more personal level which is what friends do. Others choose to not get to know others on a more personal level which is fine. But stop for one minute before making such personal attacks and think. Think that one might be battling depression, one might be in an abusive relationship, wanting someone to just talk with or one even might be struggling with life in general. We all have our reasons for playing.

    I know this is scattered and all over the place. But my point is, before making harsh personal attacks and comments to one, stop and think of how you feel when made towards you. Play the game but let others play it also. Don't dictate how you think one should play just because they aren't playing the way you would. Quit worrying about how much one person does or doesn't spend. Just play the game your way but let them play their way also.

    I will end it with this I know I'm hated. I know I have a mouth and I am highly outspoken. I do have an attitude a lot and sometimes my mouth gets the best of me but I'm not the only one. ️But to those I've offended I do apologize.
    Hope everyone has a wonderful day/evening.
     
  2. The internet is filled with negativity and hatred because not everyone has the basketballs to say what they would say online to someone's face in real life.

    It's a dark and dirty place, like darker and more dirtier than the hole that never gets no shine.
     
  3. I read it all  Thank you, OP. Pretty valid point. Well-worded, too. 
     
  4. I also skimmed through your thread... So if you have a short version, that would be utterly LOVELY.
     
  5. I had to stop and think why I just read all that.. Well, good thread
     
  6. nuff said
     
  7. Wow! Op, Once again you stuck your nose where it's not needed. Last I checked you weren't apart of the sfw. SO SHUT THE HELL UP! Not many people like you.
     
  8. I am not reading all that! I read first few lines, for the gist. Booooorrrrrriiiiinnnnnggggg. We're all accustom to the wonder that is the internet, nobody should expect anything other than what happens if you don't want negativity then don't say you don't want it 
     
  9. Popular or not Op has a good point. Ppl do make this game way to personal.
     
  10. Idk u op but thanks for this.



    (I only read a third of it but the parts i read were good)
     
  11. Good thing I'm not cool and radical enough to not take this game personal.
     
  12. I do believe she is making a statement. She apologized for her actions. Is it necessary to be rude.
     
  13. But glad that barcode proved your point
     
  14. If someone wanted to read a novel they would go pick up a book and read it and not play this game. Js
     
  15. In all honesty this sfw originally began as an effort to stop two clubs from dictating the comings and goings of people to clubs, club farming smaller clubs when their demands weren't met, and ending the general gang bullying mentality.

    As to the barcode's comment. I think we have all witnessed your club being almost as bad as the club that started this sfw with dictating who can go where and your remarks speak for yourself yet you all sit under the guise of fighting to rid PIMD for comments that I made which I in fact did apologize for.

    Today, I sadly saw an admin of mine chastised by a group of people to the point of where one questions when is this a game and when are people simply taking things too far. For those of you in this particular group chat, and you know who you are, I implore you to think of your behavior as well and maybe not latch on to a clique mentality that equates to bullies on a playground.
     
  16. Or they may read enough to make a novel on this game. Js. You don't know.
     
  17. well said Holly I still love ya. ?I don't like the personal attacks idea either
     
  18. I love ya pun but now everyone and their mother is gonna comment on the thread talking shit to you. But when they do it'll show everyone how childish they are
     
  19. What? Too lazy to read..
     
  20. You shouldn't have posted this.
     
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