Hey sorry to you people on the forum that say that personal problems don't matter but I want some opinions on this. My girlfriend and I broke up a few days ago. First she told me she wants just a break because she has alot going on in her life (she does) and that she hates that she can never find time to be with me and that we can't talk the same anymore (meaning that sometimes we don't have stuff to talk to eachother about). Then when I texted her last night I asked if she thought we would get back together and she said she didn't know but realisticly no. She told me that I would move on even though it'd be hard For me and for her to accept that. That I would find someone that could be my bestfriend and my girlfriend at the same time. I told her I loved her and she told me that I didn't love her but that I loved the relationship (not true I love her) and that we are young and should experiment and try new things (not sexually for you Pervs that are thinking that and ironically she's younger than me). Then she thanked me for being her first kiss and her first real relationship. That she would never forget me. now to what I think. Her friends were never really supportive of our relationship and I think she got "bullied" into breaking up with me because everyday (it helps to have friends who are girls) at her table during lunch would ask everyday for a week before this happened when she was breaking up with me and she said to them that it wasnt nice that they were saying that. Idk what to do and I would like your opinions. My friends have told me stuff but I want a neutral opinion on this
Dont be so rude to him star I think she needs some space Always be here for her when she needs you even if she is pushing you away but if she broke up with you because of her friends she didnt love you for real
I'm not being rude, it's true, he should forget about her, of that's how she feels than she doesn't deserve him
She also told me she was terrified that we wouldn't go to being friends and that I wouldn't talk to her again ( she cried more when she said this).
Now that changes everything, just be friends, soon she'll realize that you were the best thing that ever happend to her, then she will start to remember all the good times you had together and ta da, you've got yourself the girl of your dreams
Is that what she wants? Not being friends and become total strangers. If she really wanted you to stay in her life she would have been clear and wouldnt play with your mind like this Girls can be very good actresses and ive seen many guys fall for it so mate forget her (hope it didnt sound rude)
Are you sure that what she says is true or its all mumbo jumbo she made up so you wont be hurt when she told you she wanted to breakup
She did when I was personally talking to her face to face but she didn't say so over text. I asked if she thought we would ever get back together again and she said (copied and pasted this) "I honestly don't know that. But do you want a realistic answer? Bc honestly no. The reason I say that is I know this was hard, but you WILL move on. And I know you will, as I have to accept that fact. You'll find another girl, and she'll be better for you than I was.... I know that and it's hard... But it will get better for both of us, and you'll find another girl who can actually hang out more, who has time, who can be your best friend and girlfriend. I hate saying that, but it's true. I'm so sorry. I won't ever regret having had this relationship. I promise. I wot forget it either. I consider this my first real relationship and I thank you for that. And it kills me too knowing it had to end. So don't cry because it's over, smile bc it happened. You have great friends and i know you can do this. Your one of the strongest and bravest guys I've ever met"