First of all, what is marriage? Marriage-the formal union of a man and a woman. That is the definition of marriage. How can you justify that? Why is this even an option? We all tell the noobs that this isn't a dating site. We tell them not to sext. This is a game. This is not a place to get married. Marriage means love and there is no way you can love someone you don't even know them. If your significant other plays this game and you are in love with them in the real world, that's awesome. Good for you. But if you think it's ok to get married on a game like this and have a wedding war, you are a complete idiot. Love- an intense feeling of affection. Love is not an intense feeling of I'm going to farm you in our wedding war. That's not right, and surely all you wedding war people deep down understand. A wedding is supposed to be peaceful and nice. A wedding is family and friends. Come on people, I really hate being the one to bring this out but it's ridiculous. You can't be in love with someone you don't know. Get real.
Agreed. People don't understand that almost total anonymity on here allows you to be whoever you want. If you met the person you are "in love" with on PIMD in real life, he/she would most likely be nothing like the person you were interacting with in the game. The time wasted on here trying to foster fake relationships would be better spent on people going out in the real world and trying to find someone.
Okay well.... If you don't think its possible to love someone you don't know, why can you feel that it is right to hate someone you don't know. It's all the same. Yes the game is just a game and it's not real life, but the people here that keep the game going are real. People find people to love them for them on here all the time and then they meet and continue loving. Two of my old friends are together right now in real life all because of this game!! One lives in the US and the other in England, but right now they're both in the same room happy and in love on visit so i believe in online relationships
Again, it is all personal opinions. Of course ones that are in a game "relationship" would disagree with this thread.
Who said anything about hating people on here? I don't think it is right to hate anyone, regardless of whether or not you know them in real life. You may not get along with people in real life and you may not like the online persona someone on here assumes, but I don't think you can say that people on here feel so much malice towards another player that it merits using the term "hate."
Well people seem to show much hate tirades others on here as to where people also show lots of love to others here. We all share real feelings though this is a game. It's still love, happiness, hatred, dislike, etc.
I don't think I have ever seen a display of "hatred" on here. Dislike, yes, but not hatred. I don't think you understand the intensity of that word. I think it would be hard for you to find someone with so much animosity inside them that they actually felt hatred, in pimd or elsewhere. The word "love" is so overused. People often forget what it means to feel it. I think a lot of people somehow form some sort of emotional connection to a fake personality on here and jump to thinking it is love. Friendship and slight infatuation are not the same as being in love. And you cannot truly fall in love with another person unless you physically see, touch, and experience what that person is like in reality.
Of course I wouldn't because I hate no one on here. I don't like to hate others, simply because life is just to short to hate people most likely over something stupid and especially on here. but it's possible and people say they hate others all the time. But still with the whole love thing, I know how I feel and I have my opinion and I believe in falling in love with someone here.
Quick to assume much? My comment was not directed towards you, and was also an opinion so there was no need for you to comment on it.
Amanda I agree with you because it is like the saving goes, you never truly know how someone is until you live with them. Now I'm not saying its not possible to love if you don't live together. I myself don't believe in a game "relationship" because like you said, you can't exactly know the person. You don't know what is real or fake about them so I guess you put it all into trust. Just because game relationships worked for a few people, does not mean it will for everyone. I find it ridiculous when half of the people on here who say they are "in love" aren't even over 16 or still living with their parents. I personally think it is because you still have a long life to live, and should focus on other things in life that are important then throwing it all into a game. AGAIN, not directed towards anyone before someone wants to get their panties in a knot.