Hello, PimD'ers! As you can tell by the title of this thread, I need some open opinions from others. Here's the thing; My boyfriend and I were discussing what we thought cheating meant. I said, "I was raised to believe cheating is any form of sex, protected or not with another girl/boy." He said, "unprotected sex." I was struck baffled at first from this, and in a way I understand where he is trying to come from. But I told him, that if he asked another girl for any type of sex I would leave. Now, I can look past kissing and I would be upset but not as much as him doing certain other things. So, I'm here asking for your opinions on what you think cheating is. Do you agree with my boyfriend? Agree with me? Or have your own definition?
Any form of physical affection with a person who isn't me or family is called cheating in my eyes... Your a nutter for thinking its just sex
Cheating to me is like others said, "Anything above friendship standards." I wouldn't even look passed a kiss.
Yeah kissing someone who is not family on the lips is cheating in my opinion. Even talking-talking is the lowest form of cheating. Theres many different kinds.
You are crazy. If I saw my girlfriend holding hands with another guy, unless it was a child or something I already know about or understand, I would break her hand and the relationship off right there.
So if u and ur bf go to some club... he can freely kiss girls, if they allowed him ofc? And that isnt cheating on u and for u? How old are u and ur bf?
In my opinion there are many forms of cheating not just sexual. I recently broke up with my bf of two years for it, I believe cheating can be sexual as well as lying to your partner and keeping secrets from them. The number one thing in a relationship should always be honesty. When you find yourself deleting messages off your phone so your partner cannot see them is when I find it cheating rather it be sexual or not.
Panda I thought the same thing. That chick would press criminal charges and civil charges to have her wrist surgery fully paid for, along with receiving a solid amount in punitive damages.
So your saying If I got messaged that I was financially bankrupt and kept it away from my lover that would be cheating? Or I got a message from an ex about meeting each other again while i'm in a relationship.. I delete that message and DO NOT meet up with her but don't talk to my gf about it that would be cheating aswell?