I'm totally into my best friend. She says she likes me too but isn't ready for a relationship because she got her heart broken when a 2 year relationship ended 3 months ago. She also likes someone else, which she admits is another reason for her heisitation to date me. We keep hooking up but I want more. I don't want to push her into anything but I also don't want to wait around and end up getting myself hurt in the process. We seem to talk about everything including the fact that I like her and she likes me, but I just feel like I'm missing something here. I mean, it should be simple right? But for some reason it's not I know the situation is confusing. I just would love any advice anyone has. (And also I needed to vent a little). Thanks in advance. And I know this will be trolled but I don't care. I just really need advice from impartial people.
If she's sleeping with you but won't put a title on it ,then she's just keeping it warm until the next guy.... sorry to be so blunt.
we first of all have her wait till she makes up her mind cuz it might not work out if she ends up liking the other instead of u so make her like u more
I've seen this before. Hun, hate to break it to you, but you're not only the third choice (lower in the foodchain than second choice), but you're the boytoy. She knows she can fall back on you when she has nothing, or at least nothing concrete. My brother was in your position before. Guess what? Everytime she had a breakup, she's go to my bro and he was used. She went on to another guy and then BAM. Back to him. She's married to some airheaded idiot who has no job. What she gets. You could do better than being the third choice/turned third wheel. :|
In Latvia we use traditional Kazak wedding sack. I think this like your American Free Candy van. Or in Germany the Cellar of Mr Friedel. Don't give your sister the choice, you tell her she must not sleep with these other men.
i live singapore,here we like girl,girl dont like us,we bag her and take her to 'murica where everything legal,we marry girl,then bring back singapore,live miserably ever after
Youre her bridge over troubled waters. She may not realize it. But there is a reason she is hesitant to make it official with you. It feels like something is missing because something IS missing. Stop fooling around with her. You dont have to quit being friends but your friendship could interfere with future relationships.
Thanks guys. I appreciate the input. It makes me sad because I don't know how to get over her. But I think you're right. I AM the third choice. I never thought about it like that before.
I am confused. You are getting inside your sister yes? Great success. If 3 days ago she with another man, but now he leave her, perhaps this she not good cook? Or she no longer strong on plough? Perhaps she has been reading internets and wants to ride on inside of bus? But this not matter to you if she removing your poison. If she also love another man then I think she may want you to pay. You should be careful with these ones.