The mod Jerk made a thread about this already, many people have posted. Go see if you fit one of their description? This post is for lower people like me.. Im 180 kcs Im looking for someone at least 200 kcs and grows(must be girl,no rp!!) And i do not have the free ask out anymore or ec Post your kcs, what youre looking for, and if you are whiling to ask or not...
Considering the onslaught of jokes and harassment from people who take the relationship mechanic seriously, I don't see a problem in asking for a specific gender.
It's not mean or anything of that nature, but it happens. I can see how one joke in a club chat alone is worth avoiding the annoyance.