Not all men are the same. Stop stereotyping them all into that one category. In my experience, women do it just as often as men do. So none of that "it's more common in men" crap.
No, I speak from the heart. Lol I wasn't kidding when I said "in my experience" been there, done that.
I think she's just asking why some men doing, stop projecting. She hasn't damned all men yet, and she didn't say say it was more common in men. Plus this comment basically railroads through the questions. Ok, not all men. But why do some men do it? Why do women do it? Why do people feel the need to play other people?
Anyway I think some men are like this for 2 reasons 1) They're immature and they don't know what the hell the really want in the first place or 2) They enjoy the game, it's fun for them. For some people their favorite think to do is make someone catch feelings for them and then on to the next one. But every guy is different.
I always end up with the wrong guys, and im a loyal girl. My perspective on being with someone is: if your with someone then why be with someone else? Or lead them on? It just aggravates me that some men think women are toys to play with when were not.
Was not saying that women don't do that, she asked a question about men so we're talking about men. But yes men AND women do it to each other and it hurts either way.
The title of the thread is "men"; op used "men" in her post. It's as if she's generalizing all men. My point is, she posted in forums and was obviously seeking some sort of opinion. I gave her mine. @OP, if your relationship with your partner didn't work out, then so be it. But take it as a lesson for the next relationship and move on. Plenty of non-cheating partners to go around.
Focus your attention on one, instead of seeking attention from others. Sometimes its not the men, maybe its you. Remember I posted "SOMETIMES"
Sometimes people don't really want advice or a solution I guess. Sometimes they just want to vent. I think that may be what is happening here. So.... in the spirit of unyielding rage and frustration. (ノಠ益ಠ)ノ彡┻━┻
Um. Your heart is very much alive, sir. I'll warm it up further ????? With a microwave. Or a cauldron. cholos love cauldrons.