So a friend of mine loves to roleplay with other women and he’s MARRIED. Roleplay is his life. His wife found out the other day and she got super pissed off and it’s kinda weird because she wanted to talk to me about it... lmao. is roleplay considered cheating, or is it excusable because the sëx isn’t too great?
I think it is kind of up to the two individuals in the relationship to decide that for themselves. We aren't married to him.
I think it depends on the values and boundaries of the people dating. It can be considered cheating if your significant other dislikes you engaging in sexual rp, while other people may find no harm in it since there wouldn't be a physical sexual interaction. Above all though, in my opinion, you go to seek out other ways of sexual gratification when you aren't satisfied with your current partner ー even if the gratification is done via rp. This lack of satisfaction could be fixed with general communication with the partner, and talking about things you would be into and things you dislike as and vice versa. If it still doesn't go well in the bedroom, and sexual pleasure is something you value highly, then maybe that particular relationship isn't right for you and instead of engaging in rp, then maybe you should end the relationship and reenter the dating pool. I hope that big paragraph makes sense oof
It could be cheating or it could not. The wife in question seems to define it as cheating, in which case i wanna side with her just cuz i feel like he/she shoulda clarified first whether or not it was okay or cheating.
It depends on the couple. It sounds like he was hiding it from her which automatically makes it super shady. Personally I think if you’re out here nutting to other women even if it’s online, it’s cheating.
You work with females - cheating You go get groceries - cheating You tip a server - cheating You go watch football with your friends - cheating You help somebody stranded - yup cheating.
If your girlfriend thinks any of the things you just listed is cheating, you need a new gf. That’s a toxic, jealous relationship.
You sound salty af. Don’t group all females into the same category as the one seemingly unstable one you dated dude. Also to answer OP’s question - i wouldn’t call it cheating but if I found Out my bf was role playing with others I would lose my shít big time. It’s not ok. You’re basically wishing, imagining and pretending to be having sex with someone else. That’s sick and creepy if you ask me. If you need to do that in a relationship, you’re not in the right relationship.
Fammmmmm! I just had this conversation with someone who wants to date me. If you’re in a committed relationship then yes I consider it cheating IF ITS SËXUAL. I use to role play when I was younger on a forum and it was mostly just us pretending to be magical creatures going to school (gagme I know). I also think it’s hella fücking rude if you RP when you’re single and CONTINUE to do so once you’re in a relationship. IDGAF what kind of excuse you think you have. I could honestly just Fr go off but I won’t.