I need some girl advise

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by StarMyBorn, Feb 21, 2019.

  1. Hi I’m 22 I go to university. I been talking to this girl and we went out on a date once. It was earlier last month.

    I asked her out today if she wants to hang out and she said “yes, but do what”.

    I haven’t replied back to her. Because I don’t know were to take her.

    She likes to party and club, I don’t. I know she doesn’t want to just eat.

    Can I get some good date ideas. What do girls in there early twenty like to do?
     
  2. Yes my grammar and spelling is awful. I don’t care!

    Also I just started dating when I turned 22, I haven’t even gotten my first kiss. So I’m a noob, so go easy on me
     
  3. You said she likes to party and club. There's your answer.
     
  4. I like to go fishing or shooting at the range but that's just me
     
  5. Not my type of vibe. Lol
     
  6. Your a girl? I’ve never shot a gun. I’ve never been fishing.
     
  7. Yes. I'm not 20 yet but close enough 
     
  8. If her scene isn’t your vibe, y’all ain’t gonna be good together. Cut your losses lmao
     
  9. You could try taking her to really active bar/pub in the area. It's not clubbing but it should be social enough, and it could be a comfortable environment for you two.
     
  10. lol, taking her out eating is always a good idea. Food is life 
    Don‘t take her to the cinema (you can‘t talk).
    Take her out drinking something, maybe you have a bar near where it‘s not too packed and no loud party vibe going on - cocktail is always a good idea. ?
    Or try and take her to a cute Caffee ??‍♀️

    good luck boo ?
     
  11. The usual options like karaoke, movies, eating and eating again gets boring fast and the cost adds up. Personally I like to do something cute and fun without spending much money.

    Find something that is simple and fits you both, like a hobby. For me, I have a connect-the-dots book that I complete together with my date sometimes.
     
  12. He can try. I also did and succeded. ️ Time and Patience lol
     
  13. I don’t think you're her type tbh
     
  14. So you can't even try it out for her once, even if she likes it lmao? yikes
     
  15. You could try ice skating or bowling. Do something together while having fun!! There's music, food and a great atmosphere. Good luck!
     

  16. There is no need to change who you are and what you like for the sake of others
     
  17. there isn't but it sounds like they're incompatible and he should find someone whose lifestyle aligns more with his
     
  18. I'm not big on the nightclub scene either, bars yes, actual clubs no. And I would never date a chick who was into going clubbing.


    If that's not your thing, then I don't think it'll work.
     

  19. Yes, that's what I'm saying lol. Also, I thoight the OP was a chick too? ?
     
  20. Oh i just assumed it was a dude.