My boyfriend keeps telling me if I leave him he will kill himself... I can't tell anyone with out him being put into a mental hospital. what should I do?
Well. You have four options. 1. Tell someone and get him help. 2. Break up with him and see if he actually does kill himself. 3. Stay with him forever in hopes that he doesn't kill himself anyway. 4. Tell him to get help.
1 I can't do. I don't want him in a hospital and 4 I've done. I don't want to see him die... Forever? Well shît!
I've been thinking of trying to find some one else interested in him make them start hanging out while I'm "busy" he leaves me and it's all good. Idk.
If you're not willing to have him potentially hospitalized to help him, then you mind as well sit back and do nothing. Him threatening to kill himself if you leave is a RED FLAG ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR. You need to tell someone, EVEN IF HES HOSPITALIZED BECAUSE OH WELL, and leave him. End of story. If you're not willing to do that then you will never be able to help him and you mind as well do nothing at all.
One of my bf's tried this once.. I called an ambulance, and he was so embarrassed, and had to explain that he wasn't really going to do it.. He never threatened to kill himself again.. Sounds like he's trying to emotionally blackmail you into staying with him, and that's a form of abuse.. Explain to him that when he says he'll kill himself if you leave, he's dumping all his emotional baggage on to you, and that's not fair.. He needs to sort out his issues himself.
If you're no longer interested, leave. In this day and age, it's highly unlikely he's going to kill himself.
give him a taste of his own medicine!!!! tell him youre goin to kill yourself if he wont leave you alone? if he really loves you like he claims then he'll prbly let you go worst case scenario: he ends up killing you then himself
1. become Dull 2. Don't Shower 3. Make a terrible Sandwich If he is not gone by step 3 I have no idea
Just because he threatens to kill himself if you leave him does not mean that he loves you but if you want to show that you love him take him to a psychologist get him some help!!! He most likely will not go to a mental hospital for saying stuff like that... If he actually tries hurting himself then yes he will have to be hospitalized. People think mental hospitals are filled with crazy people but they aren't they are there to help people I know cuz I've been to 2, one when I was 11 and one when a couple years ago when I was 16...and don't plan on going anymore... But if you really love him you will find him help before he does anything to hurt himself!!!