I need help and advice!

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Ok so I finally broke down and told my student counseler that I was depressed for the past 4 weeks (I didn't tell her I cut) and she said I needed to tell my parents so I just did and my mom starting crying and asking me a million question about like if it was her fault why I felt depressed where it was happening and I lied over every one of her questions. I need help how do I get my fucking life back to normal and my parents to think I'm normal and how do I keep away all the questions I don't want to answer. I feel like my life is worthless now that I told her. I hate my life
 
First you need to tell her the truth. Depression is a very serious thing and you must first be transparent with your parents. You must remember your parents love you and will be there to support you all the way. People with depression needs family support and encouragement. Maybe you can go to a room with your mom and try to answer all her questions truthfully. That is the first step for you to recover.
 
It's nothing to be ashamed of Hunter. Be open and honest and speak your mind and feelings. You will feel better. Ask for professional help.
 
Hunter, hunny. I am proud of you. But you need to tell her the truth.
It will help when the counselor calls to talk to your parents, she will explain more about depression.
Show your mom those websites I gave you, so she can start to understand.
I am so proud of you. But please tell her the truth. Tell her it's nothing she or anyone else did, it is just a chemical imbalance in your brain.
 
If I'm truthful she's gonna be so like upset with me she's gonna blame it all on herself and she's gonna be like y didn't u tell me before do u not think I love you? And i can't answer all her question it wud break her heart
 
Hunter, show her those websites. It will help her understand. It will help her understand that it was no ones fault, and it will help her understand why you were scared to ask for help.

Like I said, I am so proud of you. Just continue on with this sweetie, you deserve to be truly happy.
 
Hunter I'm so beyond proud of you and relieved! I was so worried about you... You've taken the first step pls keep going one of the hardest parts is over. You may seem like you're breaking your moms heart but in the long run you are working on healing yours and in fact will help you be the best son for your mom. Love you hunter. Sorry I've been busy w RL. But pls continue to reach out to them they are reaching back to you this is only an initial reaction... So proud and happy you took this step.. You are a lot stronger than you know abd can overcome it all. One step at a time
 
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