I need advice. 

[-SJ-Yellow_Snowman]

Recently, my friend Tikala died.
She commited suicide.

This is the first time I've ever had anyone I know die.
I'm 14 and I don't know what to do. I feel sick, angry, sad and confused.

If you've had anyone close to you die how did you get over it? If no one you know has died, don't comment. You don't know what it feels like.

 

[Juliann13]

Well my uncle killed himself n I'm still sad but I'm mostly mad at him for doing something so selfish. I look at how my family is suffering without him n it pisses me off that he did this. He ain't here to see his son graduate or see us have children of our own n it kinda makes me hate him. So I guess what I'm trying to say is nothing makes it better but for me being angry at him helps.

 

[-SJ-Yellow_Snowman]

I'm angry at her for not saying goodbye and leaving me and her sister. But I understand why she did it.

 

[Juliann13]

Y?

 

[-SJ-Yellow_Snowman]

Her life was the second worst, after her sister's, that I've ever know.

 

[Juliann13]

So was my uncles but it doesn't give u the right to kill urself if u hate ur life change it not end it

 

[Juliann13]

Her sister is still alive so what excuse does she have

 

[caspertheghost]

Time. That's the only thing that even helped remotely. Alcohol worked for a night but when you wake up, they're still gone. Don't go down that path. And I am talking from experience sadly 

 

[*UltraViolet_ (01)]

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My parents left me. My foster parents(which totally sucked.) got killed. My foster sisters threw coal in my eye(which I lost), I say karmas a bitch.

 

[sxual_me]

Well I deal with death in my line of work, since November last yr to April this year I've lost my mother, aunt and brother all to cancer. It's a really hard process to go through but I have a younger brother (15) and my father (now dying of cancer) and they both supported me, along with great friends I have. Some ppl choose to grieve alone, keep their life busy or grieve with the ppl who have lost their loved one.

Just take a step back, look at ur life and think bout the ppl you have now that will support u in your time of grief. If u have no one, be strong and know that you are all you can be! Stay positive and cherish the awesome times you've shared with that person and try and keep their memories alive 

Truly sorry for your loss

 

[A51______PlTBULL______A51]

I lost my mom July 1st of this year and my best friend took his own life 3yrs ago. It is very tough, but don't let the memories die. I have my bf's pic on the wall as you come in my house in the Goofiest pose. Which normally wasn't him, he was a bouncer and was a tough guy. But if you look at that pic you would never have guessed he was usually serious. That pic always makes me laugh, so I never forget. It's tough at 1st.

 

[Wife]

The Hurt Never Leaves You, But Over Time It Becomes Bearable. I share your grief.

 

[kendall_24]

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