In school, there's this guy who had a crush on me since we were freshmen. I didn't like him back, but now I'm starting to fall for him too. He doesn't know that we like each other now... And I'm the only one who knows it! Even my friends don't know my feelings for him! And this is where the drama begins! My bestfriend told me and my other friends that she has a crush on him, the guy I like too !!! What will I do? Should I tell her? What if it breaks our friendship?! Please help!!!!!!
the question is...is he worth enough to chase regardless of girlfriendship u have..like hes got real good life values? intelligent? caring? can u learn something from him? do u think he will choose u over other girls once u tell him?
if u want him bad u just go ahead n tell him the truth. if he chooses u, then ur friends gonna have to suck it up. if she defriend u then u go find better friend. if the boy chooses ur friend then u move on
Well its bros before... lets say females so i emagine its the same for girls. There are plenty of other guys in the world
Title made it seem like this is a life or death situation. Don't think this is a BIG problem lol. Anyway, if you really like him, then do something about it. If your friend is mature enough, whatever happens, it shouldn't break your friendship. Let the guy decide who he wants to be with. Hopefully the guy is worth the risk though.
Tell her that you like him and if she doesn't want to be your friend anymore over a guy than she wasn't a very good friend in the first place. But if she is and you both still haven't figured it out yet then ask yourself if he's worth losing a true friend. Like for us girls Best Friends before Boyfriends.
Talk to both ur friend & guy about whats going on. If ur friend knows his feelings towards u & ur feelings towards him then she should be a real friend & back away. But if he chooses her then u need to back away. If he's waited this long for u then I think he'll still choosr u.
A true friend would understand. It's just a crush and they come and go. It's not like you're taking anything from her. Things like this shouldn't be a problem if you're really close Astro jus becomes wise again