How to forget or let it rest ?

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by iBerryMakeYouBendOver, Aug 29, 2014.

  1. My father died a few years ago, i never had the chance to see him so i couldn't say goodbye as u normally would.

    Tpday it still tears me away i still wake up having nightmares, still cry every time i hear someone talk about their father.

    Does anyone know something i could try/do to make it less painfull? Please post 
     
  2. Talk to people, move on sweetheart, I know it might hurt a lot, but move on.

    Find someone to keep your mind clear.
     
  3. Kaname i tried that but even that isn't enough, i'd still end up seeing the last moments as if its happening now and still cry
     
  4. Talk about it to your mother, talk it off, let it all out in one shot you'll feel good, do something (activity) with your mom. Just keep your mind cleared.
     
  5. Talk ti family and friends, maybe even seek professional help. Losing a parent is hard and tbh you never really get over it. Unfortunately death is something we all face.
     
  6. Kiss a girl you wont be able to think of anything else
     
  7. Seriously though let ppl in
     
  8. Go to a therapist.
    You need help. :roll:
     
  9. Talk with family and or your closet most understanding friends if he has a grave site visit it and get everything off you chest I know it may se.wierd to talk to a grave but for my friend and my mom it did wonders for them
     
  10. I suggest talking to family and friends as well as trying to be positive. I know it's a sad thing and it's very very hard to move from. Especially since it was your father. To be honest you just have to move on ? you can't just stay in one spot and live in the past I'm sure he would have wanted you to move on and keep him in your memories. Talk to friends, go out, do adventurous things, have fun, live your life. I hope everything turns out good for you soon. Sorry for your loss. 
     
  11. You can't just forget a death, nor let it rest. The grief hurts, and the pain hurts. But death is something you have to accept. Even if you haven't gotten to say goodbye.

    You can always pm me dear.

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