So my cousin Chelsea is a freshman in high school and she has the world's biggest crush on a senior. She just got out of a long relationship that was totally unhealthy so having a crush is a huge thing for her and I hate to ruin this for her. She asked for my help getting the senior, Sean's, attention. If it matters, Sean is in her gym class and is best friends with her best friend's brother. She doesn't think Sean even knows her name. What do I tell her?
Long relationship??? She's a freshman. How can you have a "long relationship" that young. What is wrong with you kids.
1She's getting a 4.0 so she's not dumb and 2its possible. I don't know where you're from but it happens quite often where I live
If he's senior then he's probably not worth it. He probably doesn't want anything to do with freshmen
I've known people that were all together through middle school then broke up in highschool. Not that uncommon. I'd tell her to at least try to talk to him. If they have gym together that's a great opportunity.
I suggested that and she said she wouldn't know what to say. I told her to bring up soccer (he's the captain and she often goes to the games with her friend) but she's too shy. This is probably a hopeless cause..
If she never attempts anything, then she's never gonna know what could have happened. Soccer would be a great topic to bring up from the sounds of it.
Seniors usually don't care about freshmen (at least from my experience) She shouldn't set her sights so high if she's on the rebound, the same thing happened to my friend. But unfortunately she was stupid and told him right away, he didn't even know her name. So if she is willing to put herself out there she should definitely get to know him first
It's a mixed thing, whether or not seniors care about freshmen. I've had friends that were always into the girls/women a few years younger than them. One of my friends went out with a senior when she was a freshman, so it's not to say that it's impossible. Happens more than you think. But yeah, you need to warm up, rather than jumping all in. Like I said, she should just try talking to him for now.
I told her that but she gave me some stupid reason about how he doesnt know her and she's a freshman. I guess her friend asked the guy if he would ever date a freshman and he said he doesn't know. That could be a good thing though right? I mean, at least it wasn't a straight no..
Soccer. Yeah. Or...team captain! Do they have team captains in gym? She needs to be a tram captain and pick him to be on her team! That would help her out. Besides that, going into guys locker rooms it especially terrible when you're a freshman so I wouldn't recommend that. or you could play the jailbait card.... That might help.... But maybe not
She's said she's never captain but he usually is even though he doesn't pick her because he doesn't know her and what's the jailbait card?
She needs to insert herself in his life The jailbait card. In high school, that's major jailbait. Freshman and senior? Jailbait is when you like older people.