So this semester I had an internship, didn't perform the best. Classes were ok. And what I'm really down about is a girl I like. She is pretty much the exact kind of person I want in life . I asked her out the first time, she was interested in someone else but not together with them... Ok. She found out he was an idiot , ok... Thats good. I'm a good student and I have a good future. People tell me I'm the sweetest and kindest guy. Asked her a second time... A no for reasons of just not being interested in anyone it seems, not even to give it a first date ( her first date ever) And so I'm still friends with her, hanging our every once a while but not often. I have wanted to move on but can't seem to, I'm still fixed because I like who she is, if you get what I mean... I want to truly take her out, but I'm afraid she'll find it bad for the friendship if she finds I still feel this way ? I don't know what to do. Just needed to vent because I spent all day hanging out with her today.
As sad as it is sometimes you just have to accept things aren't going to work out and move on. Not everyone you're attracted to is going to feel the same way. You're young and have many many years ahead of you to find that special someone, theres no rush.
If you have spent a lot of time with her and make her laugh most of the time.. It's about time you tell her what you really feel for her.. Or you might regret some day you haven't.. Even if it means getting rejected its worth a shot.. And if ever you get rejected there's a lot of girls in the world.. You can have two or more if you want..
Raven is right. But did you really talk with her and tell her why you want to date her? Or did you just drop it on her and tell her i want to go out with you and thats it?
She might not respond or answer well if you just drop it on her some don't. I would try one more time hun but explain to her why you like her and want to date her. Be open with her and see if it helps. If it doesn't then she might not be interested or doesn't want to ruin your friendship. Bcuz it sounds like ya have been gd friends for awhile. If you stay friends for so long and no chemistry is going off some ppl keep you as a friend. Seeing as sometimes a gd friend is hard to find.
? I think I'll talk to her tomorrow. I enjoy walks, she says she enjoys walks, I'll invite her on a walk.