So.. has anyone ever met someone on here that you just couldn't stand. But.. as time went by you either got to see what they were really like and maybe your perspective changed. Maybe now you guys are the best of buddies now. What happened? Did they say something funny? Did they spam you with misc? Did they ask for forgiveness for being big dummies?
@-Julie- stands out the most to me. We got into a lot of political arguments at first, because we're both very outspoken about our beliefs. But I did get to know her a bit through general forum talk and in private, and while I don't agree with most of her political stances still, I have come to enjoy her presence on pimd. She's got a good tough-love mother-y energy that I like.
We were the best of buddies tbh. I loved talking to you every night, none of our conversations were ever boring and we even matched names once. I don't get close to people, ever. So when I let you in and then you threw me away like I was nothing, that pretty much led me to feeling abandoned tbh. I grew to despise you. I don't know if that makes me petty or wat, but I really hate losing friends because I don't make many. It's ironic because we started out as fake "nemesis", became bffs, and now I actually sorta hate you. Anywho, rip tortue.
There was one chick I became friends with on here kinda like that. I didn't hate her but she said a lot of stuff I didn't like. Mostly racist generalizations like she thought black ppl were hideous (she was black but she grew up in the south so I think it was internalized racism cuz she got bullied) and she would mock any Asian ppl in wc and ask if they ate cats and she told me to hide my cat from my roommate (I live alone now but I used to have one who happened to be asian) cuz if i left her alone w my cat she would eat it. She also had a horrible temper and would tell me things like she was gonna take a knife and cut my guts out (completely out of nowhere, we'd be having a normal discussion and then she'd blow up). Anyway. I mostly humoured her to be nice but generally ignored her but then we became friends around the time my mom died because at the same time she had a friend who committed suicide and we ended up spending a lot of time talking. We're not friends anymore cuz it was kind of an abusive relationship and bad for my mental health but for a time she was one of my closest friends surprisingly. She could be very nice at times.
I actually feel the same away about Julie. She's very strongly minded when it comes to her own personal beliefs, alot of which I also don't agree with. However, from our very few interactions, I could tell she cared alot about what she believed in.
I feel similarly about Julie. I don't talk to her in private much other than her occasionally giving me cooking tips but I used to dislike her a lot in forums. She has a generally nice personality though and I like that she's not the sort to hold grudges or hate someone just cuz we have differing opinions. Tolerance like that is kind of rare in ppl nowadays I think
I used to have a bff like that in highschool. She eventually moved away during sophomore year. It was an abusive friendship and emotionally draining, I basically followed her around tbh like a lost puppy. So when she left, I didn't know how to deal with being by myself. I pretty much became a loner after she left, but a part of me was relieved to not have her around anymore.
He scared everyone away, i stayed. Got farmed, farmed back, became started fights in pm....found out his life was messed up...started sharing about life. then started spamming each with gifts....
I had a really difficult time cutting her off cuz we'd grown so dependent on each other. It's a huge relief to not need somebody like that anymore tho, especially when they're so toxic so I get what u mean
I used to hate veggies but as I grew older now we get better along ? Well I don’t know anyone on pimd good enough to love or hate them
Definitely. I learned how to depend on myself too much after that though, which is why it's now so hard for me to make actual friends. I'm pretty sure I also have abandonment issues, which isn't fun when you think everyone is eventually just gonna leave, so no point in wasting energy on someone. So, when I do put in effort in a friendship, it means that person is and/or was really special to me.
One of my bffs could not stand me in the beginning. :lol: Then idk, one day probs during band camp lol it all changed, and we've been friends for over 10years. She is family now. I tried to get her to play this with me; she said it was lame. *sad face*
This happened once, like 2 years back. But nah not usually. I don't often take the time to get to know ppl like that and they're usually an improvement when you become friends.
Story time since I'm in my mf'in feels now: So on my 1st going into 2nd year of PIMD, I met the most amazing girl ever. But before that, I found her to be really rude. Obnoxious, really. Copying everything I said on wc.. on my wall.. on other people's walls. Really stalker-like. It got to the point to where others wouldn't talk to me because she would threaten them. And like I didn't even talk to this gurl once. Anyways, I finally followed and asked her to leave me alone. When she told me that the way I wrote was what she found attractive I was thrown off by it. She told me that she was going through stuff. Depression.. troubles at home. I could relate to her and would listen and offer my thoughts and opinions. As time went by, she became my one and only confidante. We shared the same passions.. we loved the same colors, animals, food.. you name it. But the thing I loved most about her was when when she would write all these descriptive analyses on the movies and books we loved. It was pretty ironic, that I found her writing attractive the more I talked to her. We pm'ed.. then phone calls.. video chat.. until eventually, we met in RL. It really is a special moment when someone you've been talking to online behaves and speaks in the same way in rl. I felt like I knew this gurl longer than what we actually did. Now.. she wanted to meet more times after that, but I was young and stupid (I was worse back then, can you believe it?) during those days and didn't really make time. She moved on.. don't blame her. Got married and stuff. And like we still talk to this day. She always rubs it in my face.. in a playful manner of course, that she's the one that got away. And I low-key die a little (who am I kidding.. my heart hurts a lot) when she tells me that.
True my bf used to hate me before and I didn't like him either before we know each other better and we get used to each other and loved each other but we didn't realise it except when we separated for along time then when we talked again he admitted his love for me same goes to my best friend who used to hate me and I was her worst enemy until that day we talked and figured out that we have alot of things in common