Possibly because of the fact that your name has the word sexy in it, which attracts the perverts of the game, and not the people whom have self respect?
Also why does the gender of the "best friend" matter? A best friend is supposed to love you and accept you no matter what. By extricating a whole gender from your options, you are greatly hindering your chances of finding a best friend.
Advertisement looking for a boyfriend ?free vagina? likes long walks down dark alleyways shows cleavage in every pic ?desperately seeking attention? and yet again free vagina Attracts unsavory men.