Girlfriends

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by -DEStRUCtIVE-Ceggy, Jun 5, 2012.

  1. Ok, I am at work and I'll make this quick. Lol

    Any advice how to become a good boyfriend?

    I want to know everything I need to work on relationship. I have been in bad relationship twice and this is my third relationship. I feel she's the one and I want to keep my princess happy with me so she will not have problems with me and somehow we ended up breaking up. I don't want that. So any advice you can give that can be helpful just tell me here.

    Well I think I am beginning to understand her more, but there must be something missing and I want to know if I need to do more. Whatever it is I will work hard for it.Ok I'll be back later after work. So just tell me some advices.
     
  2. Congratulations on being first although OP was actually first.


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  3. Personally there's no good advice to give. I've known my current GF for 4 years. We were at 2 different points in our relationship at the beginning. But we re connected. All I can say as far as being a good BF goes. Just do all you can to make her happy an protect her as well as you can. Don't control her, don't tell her what to do, and just be her best friend as well as her boy friend. When you find that special someone, you'll know.
     
  4. Actually OP dosnt really count as a first. Logically speaking, OP is the first poster yes. But how can I be first poster on a forum that does not exist? So in fact. I am first.
     
  5. Well played. .-.
     
  6. Le Buddy defeated o__o
     
  7. Honestly, when it comes to problems don't beat around the bush. Don't make her feel like she's #2 to anyone or that anyone has some sort of control over you. She is supposed to have full rights of you. Don't ever hesitate to show her affection. Show her you care everyday, every time you can. And last but not least, treat her like the princess she deserves to be treated as

    Goodluck and happy sex
     
  8. Happy sex..? Time to be a ninja and write invisible heheh..

    . Sex is not cool. Esecially before marriage :$ and if you ignore this message. At least use protection
     
  9. I'm a girl but I kind of know what most girls want.

    Be a gentleman. Pull out chairs for her, open the car door for her, have good manners.

    Be nice to her parents.

    Give her surprises. When she has a bad day, give her flowers as a surprise. It's the little things that count.

    Don't be ashamed of her. In school, don't be afraid to talk to her.

    Have time for her and your friends. Equal time.

    Go with Her shopping. Okay most guys don't like this, but I have no idea with you. Suggest a movie or dinner after so if you're bored, you have something to look forward too.

    BE THERE FOR HER. BE HER BESTFRIEND, BOYFRIEND, AND BROTHER ALL THE SAME.

    Good luck to you!
     
  10. Aww ceggy, such a sweet man .

    I bet your gf is happy to have you as you are happy to have her . I have some little advice for you, though I don't know if they're that good so here it goes 

    - If she's in a bad mood give her space and when feels a bit better you can/should smooch and comfort her more.
    - Make her feel like the only girl for you in the world, tell her she's the most special lady in your life.
    - And if your in a bad mood, don't let your anger overrule you, tell her your problems so she can also comfort you.
     
  11. Continuing from my previous comment 

    I have two quotes that I really like
     
  12. I have two quotes that I really like
     
  13. Why isnt it working 
     
  14. I have two quotes that I really like and love, it might mean something to you too 
    First one is
    - A man who treats his woman like a princess is a proof that he has been born and raised in the arms of a queen.-
    Now the second quote I love give so much meaning to women and men, so here it goes
    - You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be together, but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but he will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there. - Bob Marley.
    I hope this helps you ceggy 
    Stay truthful and don't ever change who you are, she loves you that way.
    And also sorry for the long post 
     
  15. Yes it worked 
     
  16. This is coming from a girl so listern

    Tip 1# spoil her

    2# take her on lotts of dates

    3# if u live near a beach taker her there

    4# take her shopping

    5# NEVER FORGET HER BIRTHDAY!

    6# text her alot so she knows she is on ur mind

    7# hug her and when ur around ur friends say "that my babe".

    8# girls love rings, gewllery, lipstick makeup, heels, chocolate and clothes!

    9# take ur shirt off infront of her! 

    Girls dig that!

    Thanks 
     
  17. Thnx everyone. I have been doing some of them, but I think I do push her too much and somehow control her without me knowing. While reading your comments I somehow realize it. So thank you all. Well I do treat her as a princess and I always show she's the only one, but I have this personality that when I talk to girls it looks like I'm flirting and I know I should fix that and I'll doing it now. Yeah I think I need to give her space I always want to talk to her, but of course yeah she needs it and from now on I'll give it to her, but I'll never forget to tell her "I love you" everyday even if it annoys her. I actually stopped saying I love you to other girls too, cause now that I love you should only be said to her. To all those who tried to help me thank you again.
     
  18. Aww ceggy .
    That's good to hear from you ceggy, and your welcome 
     
  19. Glad to help a fellow good guy. 

    I can personally say. Just small things matter so much. What I did, and what literally made my girl cry, was she's a dancer for her old school. She was practicing her routine while I was watching tv. She was dancing to a slow song and so I got up when her back was turned from me. Snuck up on he, wrapped my arms around her, and slow danced with her.

    It doesn't matter how amazing you are. It doesn't matter how much money you have.

    What matters is if she's happy each and every day to be with you. If you can make her smile when she's sad. Make her forget when she's had a bad day. Be there for her as not only as her boyfriend. But also as her best friend.

    And as long as you treat her to the best of your ability, then she will notice it. And she will do the best that she can to make you just as happy. 