Today In school During 2nd Period Gym , I found out that (I won't say any names) One Kid and another kid started fighting for some reason. I did not witness this and I don't think I would have wanted to. Kid #1 Started beating up Kid#2 He tried fighting back and soon had his Jaw dislocated. He also had a bump on his head. Kid#1 Was suspended. The Reason for this thread is a question. Why do people think That Fighting is the answer? Bullying? Like war, I hate War. War shouldn't be the answer. Like Fighting it should not be the answer .
Bullying is different than fighting, although both are not the answer to a problem. Bullying is one-sided usually with the bullied person not wanting to be involved. Fights are usually a mutual conflict that arises, though often perpetuated by one party as well. Bullying is an epidemic that happens mostly at younger ages because it is the act of immaturity and ignorance. Bullies often hate themselves and project that anger and hatred outwards to make others suffer with them, thus they choose easy targets such as ppl who are nice, quiet, or keep to themselves. We all need to work together to prevent and stop bullying.
Enroll in a martial arts class! You learn discipline, respect, and self-defense. This is the best bully neutralizer because bullies cannot be stopped with intelligence. ☯
Yes I know That Fighting is used for defense but sometimes they take it too far and hurt someone seriously. And I was in a Martial Arts but then I quit because they treated us badly
You can't stop bullying. It's just something that happens to teens. No biggie. Fighting, I agree, is not the answer to problems, but it's sometimes very thrilling
I admit I get physical sometimes lol. But if somebody comes at me I'm going to kick their ass that's self-defense
You'll never be able to stop it in its entirety, but stopping whatever you can when you see it happen is always good.
I'm gonna tell you my story... When I was a "little" girl I moved to a country and I did not speak the language at all... Not even one word... First day of school and first class I was sitting wondering what everyone was saying, when all of a sudden a guy started calling me pork and cheese... I didn't know what that meant but I knew he was making fun of me, since he was the cool guy everyone followed him and started doing the same thing. Knowing he was the same nationality as me because of his name, I got up went to him and told him in our language: once that bell rings your dead. The bell rang and I kicked him in the balls, push him to the floor, sat on top of him and started pushing... 5 teachers holding me later I was at the principals office with my parents being called and a 3 day vacation... I know violence is not the answer, but I didn't have the language so I couldn't talk it out... From that day on the guy would run whenever he saw me in school, and nobody ever messed or bullied me again
By the way... The class was a class to learn how to speak English... So the guy obviously was not in that country for a very long time either... He had been in that class for 2 years when I got there... I left 6 months after... Last day in that class I grabbed his ear and whispered: the pork and cheese is doing much better than you