Hello just another stupid emo noob thread here Okay so I made a oc story (yes you may cringe @ that) and I sent it to some friends not expecting a reply because I honestly didn't care if they reply to it or not but they did! And they genuinely liked it and demanded me to make more or continue the one I made I just honestly didn't know how to accept that they actually liked it and yeah yeah I know : "Just accept that they like it and move on you stupid noob, ffs" but it's not that easy for me personally at least to just accept that they like it Idk tbh also say what you want but I just have a hard time taking compliments and gifts without sounding like an ungrateful and rude bunch of sour grapes But here's a question cuz why not: [Anyone else just have a hard time accepting things?] Answer and interpret that question as you will -JustAnotherStupidEmoNoob
When people tell me they love me I have a hard time accepting it because jaded af... but I am working on it.
I can understand how that can be hard and I'm sorry if someone has personally hurt you in the past but you know what? You're trying to make yourself better! So congratulations on self improvement
I'm on the same boat tbh. I have a really hard time accepting compliments. Most of the time, I don't even believe em, bruh, it's that bad. But yeah, working on it.
It's good to know what you need to better understand and possibly change about yourself so a sincere Congratulations to you on your self-improvement
Definitely. I won’t go into it, but my past is full of some really messed up stuff. Things that come normal to a lot people, like accepting things or expressing feelings properly or believing positive things directed towards me, are really hard for me. A lot of people also struggle with accepting certain things, though. It’s not as rare as it may seem. Even now, years into my relationship with my significant other, I still randomly ask how he feels about me or my appearance, etc, because it’s hard to ever accept that someone would accept all of me or all of the things I work towards. I probably am going way to deep with this question, oops. Just know that a lot of people struggle with accepting things, and that is completely okay to hesitate with accepting them, but still try to believe others. Not everyone is out to lie or hurt you, many people, like your friends, want you to feel accepted, whether it be through supporting your works or otherwise, completely no matter what. ?
*Yes like catfıshing people, lying by pretending to be your boyfriend and "claiming" that it wasn't you doing any of them. Pretty messed up :[]
That has nothing to do with my past, nor anything I said. Don’t invalidate my trauma, thanks ? You’re still wrong, and you’re still upset? Get over it, dwelling on that and still being bitter is only going to hurt you. Maybe accept that it’s time to move on.
That’s not what I’m referring to, that has nothing to do with my trauma and PTSD, so get off my aśs. Grow up and get over it. When I apologized, everyone pretty much did. Accept that it’s over and done with, and stop minimizing the things I’ve actually gone through.
Anyways, I’m going to accept, since this thread is about acceptance of things, that you’re only going to continue to troll, know nothing about me, and try to invalidate me because you’re still dwelling on a silly mistake. Hopefully you’ll grow one day and learn to not focus on such silly things. ?