(n) Skill in negotiations; tactful or adroit dealing. Means no name-calling or insults. Cease fire til agreements are made. Seeing the other side's POV Situation: Ianfrosh hit TERROR --Badboy-- as a joke in retaliation, T Badboy farms Ian for almost 2B. Ian starts complaint thread slandering T Badboy. TB once again continues to farm Ian for another couple B. Ian broke rule and called TB a bad name. He tried to apologise but it seem to be too little too late. TB is teaching him a lesson or returning the joke. That begs the question when will the lesson or joke end? Addendum: Fellow crew members of Ian try to reason w TERROR club, Sammi sent them messages to stop farming. Sammi