When the person you have known, love, only to lost him/her to suicide is the most painful thing to hear. I never even knew that he was going through shit. And I had been with him eversince I came here in the Phil. He was a great friend, an awesome listener, and he stood uo for me when I was going through one hell of a time. I just wished he told me, or asked for my help because now, I can't help thinking that I could've made a freaking difference. You know, kept him alive just a little bit more. So, people who ever thinks about committing suicide, please just think about it. I know that life is very hard, but consider the people you're leaving behind. You think no one loves you? Just think again. There are tons of people who cares. If you can't live for yourself, try living for them. Seek help, and don't be afraid. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO LOVES YOU. I know, I shouldn't have made this thread, but I just want to make my point across, since this is the only thing I can do for him. Now that he's gone, I wish that he may rest in peace. Out.
My best friend, Nysa, was absent from school for about 4 days. I was really worried, and I asked her sister who also goes to my school, what happened. She didn't want to tell me and that made me even more worried. When my Nysa FINALLY came to school she asked me this, "Would you be friends with someone who attempted suicide?" When she said that I knew something was up. So I said of course and she showed me her wrist. Completely covered in scars. Some worst then others. When I saw it, I was devastated. She told me that she was under suicide watch at a hospital for a few days. When I asked her why she did it she told me, "My dad doesn't love me anymore." I think about this everyday now. Couldn't she had told me? I could've helped her. I almost lost her for gods sake! So yeah, I understand where you're coming from. I'm so happy she's okay now. She's getting help now, therapy and counseling. I'm so sorry for your loss. If you need someone to talk to you can talk to me.
Suicide is the dumbest thing to do under any circumstances. I still don't know why some people fail to understand that.
glen your dumb if someone coomits sucide it means the life is horrible how would you feel if your best friend commited suicied and everyone went "what ever"
Preads, you're the person who needs a brain check and an eye check. I am not saying CocoDream's friend is dumb. I am saying the act of committing suicide is dumb and not the correct thing to do. By arguing, you are trying to say everyone should commit suicide then? Checkmate, bitch. Dumb fuck.
Red, orange, yellow and green followed by blue. Indigo and violent, that's the rainbow song for you.
did i say that you idiot no i said it means their life is horrible so the person that is doing that is dumb not the person commiting suicied their just trying to end theor pain,you need a life check glen
Yes, committing suicide may be a dumb thing but people who doesn't consider committing suicide should try to understand what the victims were going through. It doesn't make it right but try putting yourself in their shoes. People do things when they're depressed or sad, they do it without thinking. We all do that, we all do things without considering all the facts. We make mistakes and some of us suffer for it but when you say it was a dumb thing to do then first put yourself in their shoes before you comment. I'm not saying it's not dumb, it is and kind of the coward's way out but we should have respect for them instead of pointing out how dumb it was. They've been through a tough time, no one commits suicide without a reason. Some not as big as others but there are still reasons. I understand that all of us have been through tough times as well and have not thought of it but there are people who has been through worse times than you or maybe they just can't handle the pressure. Sadly, we are some of the reasons people commit suicide, it's part of human nature. I wish it was different but it isn't. Rest in peace for those who have lost their lives in suicides.
I used to think that the word suicide is an act of running away. I still think that way now. When I saw his mother cry, I feel so inadequate. I mean is there anything that can match that kind of pain? Seeing the one who gave you life cry, leaving her scarred and wondering where the hell she went wrong? Your friends grieving, regretting that they haven't done a single thing, searching for the signs that they should've seen? I don't know if he's happy or not if he ever sees us now, crying over his unmoving body. But wherever he is, or what he may be feeling, one thing I do truly hope for is that he sees how much loved he is.