With it being friendship day, the thread about Crystal and some personal problems I began to question some of my friendships in RL and PimD. I talked about this with a very close friend and he asked me a question "What would you call a friend?" I said a person or animal (yes, I consider my dogs and cats to be my friends ) who is always there for me, I have a good time with and doesn't go behind my back with bad intentions. I then asked him the question and he responded with a list of a bajillion traits. It got me curious, what do you value in a friend? What is your definition of a friend?
Someone who I can trust, and someone who's nice to talk to and won't try to push me to do things I don't want. Maybe someone who I have a bit in common with? Someone who I can have an in depth conversation with that won't bore me to death. Basically, someone who's overall friendly to me and vice versa.
Someone who is there for you when you need them and knows they can come to you when they need you. You trust each other, care about each other and your lives are better for having each other in them.
Someone who will tell you the truth, even if you dont want to hear it. Someone that'll take the blame for you. Well, that's what I consider a friend.
^so if your bf (best friend) killed someone, would u take the blame? I honesty don't think I would. I LOOOOVE freedom, but then again if he was a good friend he wouldn't allow u to take the blame unless he planned on breaking you outta jail or something. JUST SAYIN
Hmm, thought about it and here goes: A true friend is someone who loves you for who you are, (who knows the good part of you and not so good part of you, and still likes you) and doesn't try to change you. Doesn't judge you by your past, present, and future. LOYAL til the bitter end. Understands you, and your feelings, gives wise advice, doesn't talk ill about you. Trusts you with secrets. Basically, your opened to anything about them. Also accepts you regardless of the mistakes you have made. Some one who will miss you long after you are dead. Hmm. ^MY OPINION So if any of you have a ultra good friend CHERISH THEM!!!