I have An ex who is abusive, controlive and possesive. While I was going out with him I was also talking to this other guy so my boyfriend got mad and since then he started behaving abusive with me. He has spitted in my face twice, punch in my stomach and gave me a red eye. I finally broke up with him after a huge mess with my family over him. Last time he showed up he broke my iphone in pieces because he saw I was still talking to the othrer guy. I had no idea he would show up that day because I broke up with him and I hadnt been talkin to him. That same day he broke my phone i went home crying and told my mom so she called the cops. He got arrested and got out the same day a restraining order is in place. Now i am datig the other guy and we are serious now. I dont talk to my ex because I am afraid of him, i still love him though but Ill never be with him because Im afraid of him. Recently he sent me an email telling me that my friends have been telling him everythin about me and he told me that he'll NEVER let me alone and that he'll always come back and that he wont let me be happy with the other guy. I dont know what to do because im scared if he finds out that me and the other guy are intemate he is capable of anything idk what he'd do. what should i do?!
Call the cops. Hes threatening you AND you have a restraining order so if he does come anywhere near you then hes in deep shit.
I know :/ but you gotta do what you gotta do. And if hes endangering you two then dont wait for something to happen.
Call the cops he is threathing you and show them the email and if he ever gets near you again call the cops and have him arrested or move somewhere else where he can't contact you,tell your friends to no tell him anything ,change your email ,your. Number,address,ANYTHING WHERE HE CAN CONTACT YOU! GOOD LUCK!! ๎ My dad has a restraining order also but he comes near my mom, brother,
Sad it was good u called the cops. As long as he's arrested don't worry for now just enjoy your relationship with the other guy
I really dont know what you would say or do but sounds like he broke ur phone ask your mom to get you a new one and dont worry about him or if u have to try to stand up to what he does to you. Drat brb have to eat dinner .
thank u guys so much for showing some concern and yes i try to stsy away from him all i can. but one he'll find me and i dont know whats going to happen.
You should trust ur curent bf to be able to protect u and you should told him about that ex also.. It so he can know what he is dealing by dating u and if he back off he ain't a bf worth having... Just from my point of view ๎
Oh ps: My former friend is Abusive like heck You dont wanna go near her , hopefully she doesnt know my secret but she knows what she's dealing with and will fight you , she did with my friend and with me. She does tht almost to anyone , anytime , anywhere . I hate her for doing tht.
Okay 1) a restraining order protects you from him and all his friends and family too. 2) he is harassing u, so thats something to take to the cops. 3) if u loved him u wouldnt have been talking to the guy ur with now just saying.