A warning

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by renamed34360, Aug 19, 2022.

  1. Well, my friends. I’ve spent years looking for or at least being open to love on here. And it’s been a total failure, more or less, the whole time. I’m not saying no one has ever found love on here, but it certainly hasn’t happened to me.

    so don’t be silly and waste you’re time here looking for love if you, like me, do that.

    And, by all means, make fun of me! I deserve it.
     
  2. This would be the strangest place to try find a real partner anyway. If it happens it happens. But to make it your main goal is a bit strange
     
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  3. I completely agree!
     
  4. I don't think it is strange that you looked for love here.
    I don't think it's a good idea but I don't think it's strange.
    Some people go to bars to hook up and meet up, some people go to clubs to meet potential partners/hook up
    Others go to church to see if they can meet anyone to match they values while servicing our lord.
    Others through their social circles.
    Others through dating site.
    Tbh. That's all not all different from pimd when you look at it deeply.
    Pimd is a community and a social place.
    And where there's humans/community
    There will be people eager to make friends and people eager to look for le romance my dude
    As long as you aren't being creepy/harassing/stepping on le boundary, yolo, why the heck not.

    When I was younger. I used to write Fanfiction. I was a well liked author for the community I wrote in. My work was well received.
    Made some pals.
    One day this gal and I started talking.
    We talked about writing. My stories. Life and so forth.
    Eventually we exchange socials. Talked on the phone and so forth.
    Then we meet up in rl and we became good friends.
    It was quite a process, but it came organically.
    Then we got together.
    Dated.
    And become partners for some time.
    And then we broke up
    And are to this day really good friend still.
    I don't write anymore on there
    But you see it just happened.
    I don't regret it.
    I made a good friend that has helped me a lot to this day.

    And that can happen anywhere, my guy.
    Even on pimd.

    Why it happens to some and not to others like you, I don't know, tbh.
    But I think normally stuff like that happens organically especially on games or websites not typically designed for dating.
    You'd probably have a better shot at a dating app/site
    But I do wish you a good luck 🤞🏾