So lately, I've seen a whole lot of people saying on campus things along the lines of: • There's this girl I like but I'm nervous to talk to her... • I don't know if I'm friend-zoned or not! • Can someone give me relationship help? Or something like those. I'll start at the top and work my way down. 1) Okay, you might get nervous around her. We all do! It's completly normal to get nervous, but think of all the things that could happen, if you just talk to her! Start off with someone easy, if need be. Just say hey to her when you see her and try to smile. Everyone loves smiles! 2)There are many ways to tell if you're friend-zoned, and I'm sure many people might comment adding ways, but here might be a few ways to tell! • If she calls you a 'brother' • Perhaps even a bestfriend • And of course if she tells you she doesn't like you in that way... Even if one of these have happened to you, don't worry! It's not a sure thing of being friend-zoned! I, myself, have been here, and gotten out. And if you're still wondering about it, just ask her. This may be considered strange, but if you don't know, you might not do anything about it, and you will get friend-zoned! 3) Relationship help! There is oh-so much to cover in this section! Let's just start talking, I guess. Asking them out: You should try not to be nervous! The worst that she can do is say 'no' which isn't too bad. You'll move on soon, and find someone even better. There are always more brilliant girls out there! Or you could keep going for that girl, and you might finally get her! Next is dates... Try not to over-think these either. The more you try to make it 'perfect' the more stressed you may become. Just plan something nice and easy, and it should still work out beautifully. This is the first 'real' forum I've wrote, so I hope this has helped some! All constructive feedback is welcome! Thank you all for reading! ~Lucky-TiC-TaC-
It's okay for a girl to ask out a guy. But I draw the line at a Girl proposing to a guy. I know it shows the girls is committed but that's where I am as in old fashion terms. Plus I don't like seeing girls on their knees.
Yep, girls also ask guys out, it goes both ways, it's just more honourable if a guy does it, but honour doesn't seem to matter these days.
I don't even think the girl I like know I exist Sure she would talk to me but she looks like she rather die then hang out with me when talks to me