I am about to sound like a huge ass bitch! So sorry in advance for any feelings which will be hurt here And one more thing dont read this as insult, or at least dont try to. So here is the thread: This is the definition of a heart, i found it in a dictionary: a hollow, pumplike organ of blood circulation, composed mainly of rhythmically contractile smooth muscle, located in the chest between the lungs and slightly to the left and consisting of four chambers: a right atrium that receives blood returning from the body via the superior and inferior vena cavae, a right ventricle that pumps the blood through the pulmonary artery to the lungs for oxygenation, a left atrium that receives the oxygenated blood via the pulmonary veins and passes it through the mitral valve, and a left ventricle that pumps the oxygenated blood, via the aorta, throughout the body. My question to you: Do you see emotions in this definition? I certainly do not! Therefore when someone dumps you, you are not heartbroken. You may be sad, but this in no way means that your friggen heart is broken. You will live. And eventually, sooner or later, you will move on. Now, you are probably think damn! She is a bitch. You also maybe thinking that I am "heartless"(not using the definition for this one) well I truly am not heartless, at least i dont think i am... This brings me to my next point, have you ever heard someone complaining about a person "on top" being heartless? Im pretty sure you have, but if not, it is commonly said... (Maybe not commonly commonly but....you get the point) well those people are not heartless. They just have strong "hearts" and are able to deal with it, and deal with things on their own. Maybe when they are in a relationship or whatever they might be stronger, but in no way does a relationship hold your entire fucking heart together. It should be fine on its own, totally and completely fine. And another thing, when you are complaining about being heartbroken, YOU are the one who is upsetting yourself. You wind yourself up and constantly go over how great it or whatever was and how you miss whatever it is.well NEWSFLASH you are sad because you are thinking this. Sooo.... Heres an idea!! GET YOUR ASS UP! GO OUT WITH FRIENDS AND SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT BEING MISERABLE BECAUSE SOMEONE DUMPED YOU!!! Sooner or later you will totally forget about them and their absence wont bug you. So basically what Im saying is you are the one causing your heartbreak so stop, and move on with your life Thats all! I want you to know this is not a hate thread, it may even be advice if you think about it....take it enjoy life!