Guy Issues

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by YukiTheMudkip, Dec 15, 2011.

  1. So there is this guy at school, and we both like each other. We like to play co op portal 2 together, skype and text, but we are both too shy to talk face to face and carry out a conversation. Any advice?
     
  2. Tell him to grow a pair and man up lol
     
  3. N u pretend he's not even in front of u.
     
  4. O I beat portal 2
     
  5. Try to start a conversation with him, when your with him, try your best to bring out that good guy you really know, ask about what you two like and talk about and then let him ask about you.
     
  6. Jacob, you're the ONLY person who is helpful on this thread. THANK YOU!
     
  7. That happened to me once lol it didn't work out :/
     
  8. Don't you use some sort of webcam when using Skype? (I am not extremely familiar with Skype) If so then how are you uncomfortable talking to him in person but comfortable on Skype?
     
  9. Your welcome :). I wish you the best of luck.
     
  10. Flirt with other dudes in front of him
     
  11. She might mean texting on skype... rather than video
     
  12. @Unicorn He doesnt have a webcam. We normally talk while playing video games anyways.
     
  13. Idk about the flirting with other dudes, whenever I see a girl I like flirting with someone else just makes me not want to go for her anymore because I think she likes someone else and I have no chance
     
  14. Yuki, it may be hard to talk face to face in certain situations. It is probably tougher to talk to him at certain places such as school or places where you two aren't really doing something together. Favorable terms would be if you are both playing a video game together or a sport together. This will allow you to both have fun and you can just talk about the game as you are playing. I enjoy playing tennis and I can get any girl on the tennis court with me and I'll feel perfectly comfortable. Outside of the tennis court I am not as comfortable. Maybe you can grow closer by doing games/sports together and it will then be easier to talk face to face when not doing these things as well.
     
  15. E-relationships don't usually work out. My advice, find somebody new and move on. Easier than it sounds, then again, I'm an emotional paraplegic. I have no strong feelings one way or another.
     
  16. And I am unsure if you are playing portal 2 online with each other or in the same room. It is better for you to do this in the same room if you have a choice. Portal 2 is a strategy game so it is one of the easiest games to feel comfortable talking to someone while playing. Maybe you should try playing other games with him to where you don't just discuss strategy and you can actually talk to each other while playing. If you play a game where you are competing against each other (unlike portal 2) then you can trash talk flirtatiously or something and it can be used to your advantage.
     
  17. That's how I was with my boyfriend before we started dating just start a normal conversation and go from there it'll work out:)
     
  18. It's been awhile yuki song summoners i presume

    Dnt be shy, life is way too short too play games with one another. Just talk to him and let it flow and see how it goes 
     
  19. Ok,I know I might sound naggy but I want to tell you this.
    Are you sure you're really in love?
    You might say yes now,but a few months later will it be the same?
    Don't think that it will be so confidently.
    Feelings change,even if you think they won't.
    So be careful,don't get too involved. I'm sure you know what I mean.
    Remember,pre-marital *** is not a good thing.
    So please don't take this lightly.
    And I'm 15.
    Just for your information. 