Lalagurl, every one is born for a reason. You must have faith in yourself n believe that you can do it. Then you will become some one. It doesn't matter what others think. What matter is that what you think about yourself. No one is born as a bad person. They are just people who made the 'wrong' choices in life. To me, life is a journey of self discovery. Until now if you ask me, I m still looking and searching what I want to be next. I am a daughter to someone, a friend to others, a professional at work, a sister to my siblings and many more. I was born to be all that. So in my opinion, you are born to be Lalagurl. The happy girl that I know and always chatty in cc . The brave girl and strong girl who survived a lot of things. A good sportsman. You are a friend to me and many more. Not only in PIMD society but in real life too. If you need to talk, I m always here for u . Take care dear.