So... for 15 months I have been crushing on this guy... he used to go to my school, but he graduated. I still really like him, and sometimes we still even talk on facebook and hang out with a bunch of friends (mostly his friends who I was friends with when they were in highschool)... But he never notices me. And on top of that I am too shy... please give me some advice... Thank you. ~Sincerely, Katie Shute
ok listen! if u want to get him u cant be shy! thats a turn off for guys' well for me anyway' u need to walk up to him and ask him out! that worked when my girlfiend asked me!! but now were broke up
okay... it's just really hard cause he thinks of me as a really good friend, and I don't want to ruin that by telling him I like him....
Don't tell him then. Show him. But make it obvious. Start subtle then go full out. That way, if on the off chance that he wouldn't want to date you, he would just think that you're being less shy. Then ask him out. Unless he asks you first.
yo!! scratch what i said be4! u should stop asking a bunch of lowlife game playing fools like us' for advice' u should do whatever u feel u should do!!
When I've been more shy, I wrote a letter to them. Can be kind of childish yes, but sometimes it can be hard to get those first words out. The letter sets the groundwork for an actual conversation. Did that 2 times, the first guy only saw me as a friend so we continued our friendship after that. The 2nd guy liked me as well, so we dated for a while. He was my second best relationship, and we still talk every once and a while years later.
the truth is most of us guys are shy even if we know a girl likes us we get feelings that chicks dig us and we feed into this even when we're single but we change who we like very fast so if u like us u can wait for us guys to make a move and I LOVE when girls ask me out. I think its really hot.
Yeah, it's a new age. There is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out anymore. And now we get to experience the anxiety that guys have had to endure.