I legitimately LOVE being made fun of for caring about someone rather than rally behind ppl afraid to feel. It fuels my bleeding heart ā„ļø Also are you an idiot? Thatās why I responded. Can you not recognize sarcasm? Itās been fun but OP feels better now š go make fun of ppl saying theyāre āstarvingā because it doesnāt meet your arbitrary threshold for pain š
I was making fun of you and not being serious. But regardless, I'm a victim of gaslighting which is why I was taking your casual misuse of the term so seriously.
We can be upset about how OP was treated in this thread without misusing terminology. OP was being bullied and ridiculed, not gaslit. Yes, that's still bad and we can still pity OP and empathize with them. But we shouldn't assign incorrect terms to the experience. OP was getting bullied and ridiculed. Not gaslit. All I was saying was that you were using the incorrect terminology, not that your sympathy for OP was incorrect. And I was making fun of you for using incorrect terminology, not for caring about OP's feelings. I love my words being twisted around ā¤
It honestly seems like you don't think bullying or ridicule is that big of an issue since you have to incorrectly categorize those situations as something that is generally considered to be a more severe victimization. I'm sure that isn't your intention to minimize victims of bullying, but again, no one is saying your sympathy for OP is wrong or bad or anything. All I was saying is that you painted the situation as something it was not. You can call it what it actually was and it'll still be bad. There's no need to misnomer it. Bullying is morally bad on its own.
so am I š you donāt own trauma, asshole Yāallās responses are just āstop copying meā š„“ Muschi, I literally was not talking about you in my first post. Just stop assuming other ppls problems are āless thanā because you think youāve had it worse Stay mad āļø
I'm not mad and I'm not acting like I have had it worse. All I'm saying is you can be concerned for OP without calling it gaslighting, which is isn't by the literal definition of it. That's all I said! All I said was that people aren't gaslighting! OP is still a victim, just not of gaslighting! We can be concerned for OP and sympathize with OP without lying -- intentionally or not -- about what happened! If anything I'm genuinely upset about you consistently missing the point of what I am trying to tell you and instead namecalling me as a gatekeeper, dismissing my thoughts as someone that is just "mad," or painting me as some bad person that hates other victims, all because I said that no gaslighting occurred. You're being just as bad as the people were being to OP in the name of your "bleeding heart."
Being fake harassed over a phone game isnāt an actual problem... at what point can we dismiss bullshit for being bullshit?.. I feel like this has gotten really far from the original issue which was someone describing a āproblemā which is actually a part of the game (that they choose to play) and thus not a problem. Sooooo like how are we here?
This is all so entertaining, yāall already know when someone resorts to name calling its cause they aināt got anything else to offer to the convo/argument. š©