Hey, Okay so I guess most of you got familiar with terms "rp" and people who are lowkey obsessed with it and will add you just to do that. And of course those who will curse at you bcos you rejected them. Or those who finished drama at art school and who will start with fake stories how they have cancer and are unloved and sad to "win your heart" which is basically just one nicer way to say get inside your pants. Okay now hear me out and hear me good dear rp addicts. Some of us literally don't wanna do it here and we will reject you. RESPECT A GOD DAMN REJECTION AND NO!!!!! People are not toys you can use and then throw away, we have feelings, emotions and maybe your damn action will hurt us even tho this is just an online game. Start respecting people cause one day you will want to be respected to and no one will rescept your decisions and "no". Thanks for reading, have a nice day. ☺️
I used to get requests for vamp rp all the time when I used my Pastel Vampire avi. I’ve had to block people because they wouldn’t leave me alone. Now it’s just the occasional creep that doesn’t realize when a chick is uninterested and uncomfortable.
I mean, you can. Just write on your wall you don't accept follows from strangers and ppls can wall or gift you if they need moderator help 😶
Lots of illiterate ppl on this app though. 😰 Manic could reject the request of someone that needs mod help and didn't read the wall, and then that person could start unnecessary drama about how Manic is "incompetent" or something.
You’re roleplaying by playing this game. So what’s the issue if other people want to rp? 😂 don’t follow randoms and you won’t deal with the shit you don’t wanna deal with
This. You'd be surprised how often people lose their poop over a mod not helping them quick enough, or in the exact way they want. Some people flat out refuse to ask unless it's in PM's and then get choppy because we're sUpPoSeD tO hElP. 😂 I'm not obligated to accept requests, but it's a little more expected. I tend to accept everyone, and then unfollow if they haven't asked me a question within 24 hours. There's a lot of RP requests (not even requests, just upfront filth hahahahaha) but responding is entertaining. I've many a ss, they make my club mates giggle. 🙊
Some will go waayyyy further than that once they are rejected them or feel avoided😂 Welcome to PIMD. I’m going to give the TL;DR first Basically, I block and deyeet (delete plus get them as far away from me as possible as quickly as possible) a mfkr... !!!!Ok... short attention span/don’t care/bored folks... can yeet yourselves away from the rest of this reply✌🏾 but I have a lot to say so... to the rest... that enjoy my rambling and rants... here we go...!!!!! (In other words... if this is too long for you... it’s not meant for you) Ok so... If they (the perps) show even the slightest amount of instability... I check em IMMEDIATELY. I set FIRM boundaries on what I WILL and WON’T accept and I am VERY... I mean... UNMISTAKABLY clear that I do not want to be involved with them in any way if they cannot control their unwelcome “outbursts.” If they don’t correct... I reject. (Unfriend/Ignore) If they continue... I eject. (Block) That should be the end of it... But sometimes it isn’t... If they chase me around the game with that toxic ass behavior... wall posts, forum posts, stalking my 3rd party apps, making alts to continue to contact me... continuing to try to get my attention through others/make others think poorly of me by completely fabricating things about me in attempt to isolate/discredit/silence me... posting on 3rd party app “shade” threads (because it does happen) ...I sometimes will report and avoid... and continue blocking everywhere I possibly can, but stay authentic in my visibility (because people that are mentally abusive absolutely hate this). Literally, I zer0 contact their ass. I do not respond to ANYTHING from them... just ss and go on about my day (bc in my life online or offline... they never should have existed in the first place). Or alternatively, if they really get silly, I fuck with them just like they are fucking with me... (because not everyone that is GENUINELY nice... is weak... and sheepdogs need sharp teeth) until they delete themselves (but I always keep the receipts). The reality is that some people ARE shitty like that on this online asylum (and also irl) and it’s not just the noobs and less known players either, or just males or females... gay/lesbian/pan or straight.... married/taken or single... or whatever the fuck categories people want to limit this (indeed predatory) behavior into. The shit happens and there is no need to be fake about it. I agree with the replies that suggest to ignore the RANDOM follows to avoid the possibility of dealing with this and tbh even reject gifts and delete wall posts from some of them (...off the rip -declined AF-). I also agree that there are some people that are very manipulative and it TAKES TIME to see their true colors as they often prey on the kind, caring, gullible, and forgiving nature of others. I personally like to use “scarecrows” to keep those types away (little actions to let them know to not even try it bc I’m really not having that shit). I (figuratively) keep scissors sharp for when it’s time to cut them off. (But beware that the scarecrows don’t always work, so just incase they start stalking forum posts to start drama, or try to make every post made somehow about them, I’m sure to never give an inch of personal shit away and if somehow they manage to wind up in a 3rd party gc w/ me or app I’m never afraid to keep the vms that they voluntarily send) ...Or if I’m onto them I toss them some shit to throw them off into obsession land and let them enjoy their fantasy of chasing a ghost... if I’m feeling bold enough. Idgaf what anyone says about it either... if people show an ounce of being unstable or untrustworthy... I cut them off immediately and/or keep the receipts for when a mf tries to play games later (recordings they voluntarily sent are even better because they can’t say it’s faked, which is the true reason I’ve always tried to limit texting extensively back and forth) If they are authentic and genuine with their intentions, they won’t gaf knowing that I do record keeping because I’ll never need to use it. If anything, I should have never felt the need to keep records in the first place. So, if that keeps the crazies away... Yay! (It’s not paranoia... well... maybe in some people’s minds it is.. until you actually get stalked and wish that you HAD done it. Most of the people that discredit it... have never really experienced it.) And.... I also completely agree with the “some don’t even request rp” part someone stated... OML some of them just start getting right down to it as soon as you hit the accept button and not just noobs and unknowns either!!!! Blocked AF😂 When I first started getting into PIMD sometimes I felt like helping random people... strangers... on the game to accomplish their PIMD (game mechanic involved) goals but honestly, since 2015 I felt like I couldn’t anymore without being super cautious about it... and that took away a lot of the fun of the game for me. I still played because it was an activity I enjoyed and there were some cool people to interact with, but a lot of things have left negative marks in my mind and what OP is talking about is certainly one of them. There are players that have definitely used their “influence” to make other players on this SOCIAL GAME feel outcasted, unwelcome, and uncomfortable interacting in POSITIVE ways in various channels, and some people are made to feel like they cannot speak out about what is happening behind the scenes. Yes... people can uninstall or go inactive... “if they can’t hANdLE It... but they shouldn’t be made to feel like they have to.... any more or any less than the PIMD community should show a genuine disdain for that toxic type of behavior. (Slightly off topic... a funny thing is the random campus post directed at me from an alt... “Why do you have me blocked... we have never even spoken?” Or the random wall post that says “Just checking to see if I am STILL blocked?” ... and I don’t even bother responding... I just ss, hit the block button, and delete the post because wtf...) I wanted a “superblock” button but PIMD has changed enough for me to be able to block someone so I don’t see them on campus or in forums which is nice... I still wish the other features I suggested in the “superblock” thread (such as blocking that persons ability to even view walls or wall posts on other’s walls) would have also been implemented. When I block, (give someone a one way ticket out of my life... internet life or real life) someone... I want the option to make ALL of my communications invisible to the person I am blocking. If they make an alt...🤷🏾♂️ oh well... that’s a separate issue which can be addressed in a different way... but I think more extreme restrictions on communications would definitely make the game more enjoyable for a lot of players to not have to deal with certain members of the PIMD community at all by use of simple administrative controls, if that is their choice. I also still think the ability to hide/arrange wall posts should be a thing... but I digress in this paragraph... however, this would limit the amount of energy spent on the trash that I am describing... sorry. Also... There are people, even here in forums, (what I had hoped would become more of an inclusive and helpful retreat for players eventually... smh) that will make the actions of offenders, somehow the victims fault, and even group together to do so. I just want to go against the grain and say that IT IS OK to vent frustrations about the wrong that is done in a healthy way, whether that is to bring awareness to or seek solidarity. Do not accuse without proof especially in forums but... seriously. If it’s serious maybe contact mods or devs but definitely... I want to give a special “Fuck you” shoutout to anyone who makes you feel like no one cares when you are legitimately harassed ANYWHERE online or offline man fr. OFFENDERS WANT YOU TO STAY SILENT... and downplay it but IT DOES HAPPEN. IT DOES MATTER and YOU ARE NOT ALONE. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE AFRAID TO BRING IT UP. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SUGARCOAT IT BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID OF HOW OTHERS WILL RESPOND. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO ISOLATE YOURSELF. YOU SHOULD BE HONEST ABOUT IT THOUGH. I do want to make it clear that... There are not many things worse than a person who throws out false flags about something like that. Bottom line tho as far as PIMD goes.... You deserve to be able to enjoy your game, in peace, without someone ruining the experience for you because they were rejected, or cut off, ignored, abandoned, or are some weird sort of mentally unstable super-fan that refuses to take: “no” “leave me alone” “i don’t rp” “not interested” “never speak to me again” ...or anything similar for an answer. Fact... There are players who have been farmed for refusing to exchange rp/sexts/3rd party app info. Another fact... There are people whose in game s/o’s have been farmed just because they rejected someone’s advances. This discussion happens more behind the scenes than apparently more members of this community are aware of. I admire your courage to bring it up here as unapologetically as you did, as it seems to be extremely unpopular to address these things publicly recent years. I also want to say to everyone that sometimes these things aren’t necessarily attention seeking... but a last resort for those that may possibly feel like there is no other way to express their frustrations. And OP is right... it’s just a game... but if we’re going to be so quick all the time to tell people that they shouldn’t be bothered by the excessive harassment they experience on this game all the while claiming that we want things to be better or “it isn’t so bad here” pfft... maybe we should also be sure to include that it is pretty sick of some people to take the game to the excessive harassment level in the first place.
I just ignore people 🤷🏻♀️ Never had a problem with being stalked. No one has ever been mad if I decline their rp.... Maybe I've just been lucky. 🤷🏻♀️
Holy fùck chill chill on the words. Was gonna try read it all coz starting try do it more but fùck that waaayyyyy to many words
I have a very very very very very very hilarious joke/comment, but I'll get tempabanned for it and people will really think I'm an asshole and because I'm currently only trolling fanta.