Question for you ladies

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by KUROKO29, Sep 30, 2018.

  1. Why is it that literally like 80% of females just assume that if a guy talks to them, they’re trying to get with them? Like damn i could make eye contact with a girl and the wheels in her brain just take tf off. Like relax.

    If you’re one of those girls, I already don’t like you, but please tell me why.
     
  2. I'm the opposite. You can help me with my homework everyday and I'd still think you're just being nice.
     
  3. I appreciate you
     
  4. Because anytime i thought a guy was tryna be friends they went and made it weird. I don’t assume it of all men, but it usually is the case.
     
  5. What's to appreciate about naiveté tho
     
  6. ?
     
  7. this^
     
  8. One bad apple can ruin a whole orchard
     
  9. The lack of annoyance
     
  10. The whole “of a guy talks to me, he’s trying to get with me” attitude makes me want to ask God to switch my gender so I can actually bich slap tf outta some girls. Like you females are not that special tbh
     
  11. Yes... Please relax. I couldn’t agree with this statement more. The worst is when they approach you first, and then try to make it more than what it was, when you were never interested in them in the first place. I’ve actually had someone claim that I was in someway obsessed with them, when I was completely in love with someone else entirely, (and even talked to them about the person that had 100% of my affection and rarely even messaged them first... mostly only replied after like the 3rd spam text lol) but was being nice to them, and trying to include them in a group of friends because they seemed practically suicidal and alone (and I was sick of babysitting tbh.... so I even asked for help with dealing with them from another female friend that had more experience dealing with people with mental disorders). Then, when I became exhausted of their antics, they tried to make it seem like something else.?

    Yea...
    Superblocked.

    I had to learn the hard way that no matter how kind you are, there are always some people out there that will try to take advantage of your kindness. The worst is when they try to manipulate your intent and think that you are too kind to ever fire back at them. Hard to pick them out sometimes, but once you do... phewwww... Avoid and/or ignore. It’s not worth it, and you’ll regret anytime you spent trying to make them feel better about themselves.
     
  12. ^ you say that about me a lot. I never insinuated you were in love with me. I never even thought that but clearly it's on your mind. I said that you were creepy and obsessed because you spoke about me a lot. To ppl in group chats, on forums, etc. And yes, it was creepy and weird. Sorry for calling you out on your bs

    I also almost never even spoke to you. Your rs hit me up and told me to talk to you because you wouldn't stop bring me up. I went out of my way to start convos a handful of times because I felt bad that you were always talking to me and not the other way around. If that's what you mean by 'spam'
     
  13. The screenshots on my timeline show something different... and since it is my last day... I might just post them here. You care to revise your statement or nah? Sheepdogs need sharp teeth... and you better believe I have them.
     
  14. Screenshots of what...? That you're weird af? Maybe you deleted all the weird stuff to me but i don't forget. And even if they don’t mention it to you, ppl still saw everytime you brought up me. To your rs, group chats, in your tc (which i never asked for but ppl sent me ss of). You were always telling me we got along rly well (for weird af reasons, like us both being virgos) you told me rly personal details about your life that i never asked about. And i still don't get where most of what you say comes from. You felt sorry for me...? Like what. I think i complained to you my gf and school once or twice and that's it. And that was after you came and bìtched to me about lala and your rs and your military ex gf. I was attempting to recipricate because u clearly wanted to be close to me. And me, hailey and emi were the only ones who spoke to you a few months ago and everytime we did you did this weird emo thing where u were like 'everyone hates me, don't talk to me it'll ruin your rep.' You're the one obsessed with ppl liking you, chill, not me. That's why you always bring how many lil online friends you have now and how cool you think you are. It's pathetic. You can stop. I don't have any anger towards u but the lies are ridiculous. And it's still weird that you keep bringing me up every chance you get
     
  15. It's pretty common that the guys who make friends with girls only do so because they have a crush on them and try to increase their chances by becoming best friends with em. ?
     
  16. Is this a love triangle between chill & the middle of the week?


    Post the screenshots, you don't dare.
     
  17. Actually... the screenshots show YOU being weird af and if we’re being honest here.... they show that you added me to 3rd the third party app to talk about someone that I shouldn’t let win the Best Club Presidents Contest... to show me screenshots of their “evil ways” supposedly.... that you had somehow obtained from the gc.

    A gc that I was never in until YOU told me about it... giving me the impression that it was full of YOUR friends. Michi invited me and I accepted.

    Facts.

    If the only reason you added me was to show me these screenshots, then once you showed me the screenshots of that person doing things that should have disqualified them from the contest, that should have been the end of our discussion.

    I don’t delete anything... I do unsend. After a certain number of hours... you can no longer unsend so everything I said is still there. I never had a military gf... sooooo what are you even talking about? I wrote the truth up there. I was trying to be nice to you after YOU repeatedly complimented ME in forums... not the reverse. I actually asked you to stop complementing me. I wrote ONE comment about you in forums on an appreciation thread and you tried to make it seem like more than what it was.....

    Relax.


    I am simply putting things back into the proper perspective.

    I am not obsessed with you. I never was. I am concerned with how you proceeded to go out of your way to try and hurt someone nice though. To me that is disturbing.

    I thought you were hilarious and I often showed off your humor in the gc because something you said made me laugh and I wanted you to get the credit. Sometimes you said something nice and I showed that off to people who I thought were your friends in the gc. You were never mentioned in my tc.

    I was only in the GC for 5 days. You probably came up all of 4 times.... congrats!!!

    I never ask anyone personal questions or give out a ton of personal information unless asked. ...If asked the wrong way I won’t trust you and will most likely give you an answer or story to lead you further away from me. I’ve been consistent with this since day one.

    Again... In mentioning you, I was only trying to help.

    When you mention me what exactly are you trying to do again?
     
  18. If a guy talks to me I wouldn't mind. But I won't talk much at first due to my shyness but I'll come around. If we have a lot in common then we are good!
     
  19. Mmmm I don't think I'm like that.
     
  20. Great. Kuro asked a question and you idiots are already ruining his thread with your crappy arguments that could’ve been said in pm or line