So what’s your thoughts on guys approaching you? Would you mind if a guy picks a conversation with you at the gym? When should guys approach you?
If I’m working out at the gym.. don’t talk to me. Simple as that. If I’m sitting around, then sure, spark a conversation (don’t start it with mentioning the chicks body for the love of god), but if the person is actively trying to do something.. don’t. If a girl is minding her own business with head phones in, reading, obviously doing something.. don’t bother. It’s usually more annoying than it is charming for a guy to come up to us. Especially if we’re obviously busy, or even doing something like shopping. Edit; if it’s a situation where the girl isn’t doing much, like maybe eating lunch at a park or something, and there’s other people around, asking to sit at the table she’s at isn’t a bad thing to do. I’ve had plenty of people do that just because they were looking for someone to talk to or somewhere to sit/eat. That’d be fine.
To add to warmth's stuff actually i see lotsa guys hit on girls at bars and it seems to work out for them. Depends on the bar, though. Bars with more of a 'regular' crowd, and you're just awkward and out of place. Bars with a young university crowd on a Friday or Saturday night is what guys should be aiming for ig
Yeah, bars can be an okay place too. If the girl is obviously busy with friends, then don’t be annoying and try and push yourself into the group unless she’s made it 100% clear by motioning for you or talking to you first. If she’s alone, then sure, go ahead and try to spark conversation (don’t be a creep), but just don’t push it if she’s obviously not interested or says she’s waiting for someone else, even if it’s just a friend. Basically just understand boundaries when they’re set.
Watching guys do this at gyms or bars can be such a facepalm though too because those types of atmospheres they’re either showing off every muscle in the body or often too drunk to process words
Depends on where, tbh. If at the gym, don't talk to me. But, if it's on the bus or something, I don't necessarily mind it? I wear headphones for a reason but I'm not rude when someone tries to talk to me. ? I had a chat on the bus omw to campus with some guy because he was interested in my art tote. I don't mind small talk but if I pick up on a gross vibe I shut it down.
not awkward in that way but a more cringe way though doing on someone besides yourself is always a win
a question back to the bois: how do i know if you're flirting or just being friendly? - a confus hooman
I don’t stare at girls at the gym, I don’t like giving them attention, especially the way they dress (it’s like they want guys to stare) So don’t talk to girls on the gym ? It’s weird how I met most of my gym friends by just talking to them, I can’t even use the same method with girls, you know how weird it is only knowing guys at the gym
Hold on there, I don’t flirt, I’m mostly friendly, and girls assume I like them, btw girls are the ones who flirt, You know how many girls flirt with me even when they got BF,
Nope never Nada, don't approach me "Don't bro me if you don't know me" Especially not in public, leave me be, buzz off, no thanks even if your nice just no, if you're simply asking for directions that's fine but other wise leave me aloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooone Literally me: "At laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaast That dude is gooooooooooooone My comfort has restoooooored AND I CAN KEEP IT MOOOOVIN' "
Being friendly they usually will put more care into knowing you as a person, flirting they just wanna be more in you as a person.
I’m guessing your that type of girl who’s friends are from high school and work. Like how are you going to meet people, if you won’t let them in, you need to get out of your comfort zone ?