Are women simple? Nope. Are women easy? Nope. Some guys are too but usually people just overthink what we want. Do guys make mistakes? Yes, but so do the girls. And that is why love is so difficult
Love is difficult because people are complicated, men and women. No human that I know is simple. Everyone makes mistakes. Also, most people overthink when it comes to love or impressing another. Anyways: Love can be difficult. Relationships take work, but it should be the type of work you enjoy and love. Love requires communication and understanding, and care. It’s only difficult at first, imo, if you’re with who you’re meant to be. Love is difficult because it won’t work unless the two people are right for each other, willing to put in the work necessary, and can grow with each other.
Love isnt difficult per se. Its the other emotion that it brings with itself that makes it difficult. But why? Cuz people in love are vulnerable and they succumb to these emotions
For the people who assume love is like suppose to be “clean” it isn’t. It’s suppose to be mushy, gross, and cheesy. You have to remember that you dropping the L bomb has that personified effect on someone so don’t just say it. Grab your balls or lady balls and say it with ya chest. In the end of the day no matter who you’re with man, woman, or whatever identity someone defines themselves now days the point of you kids being together is cause y’all like being around each other. J/S?
I made a thread about this already kind of... search for the word “quarrel” and you will find it not going to bump it because idk... Got a couple giveaway threads going on... but oh yeah... Why is love complicated? People don’t always reveal their expectations right off the bat... or let the person they are in love with know what level those expectations are at... and become upset when those expecations aren’t met or easily accepted, so they start to feel neglected, disrespected, and then regret it.
Ahem Love is difficult because... you gotta find peace and love in yourself in order to be capable of giving love to somebody else, because how are you gonna give somebody else love if you don’t even know how to give it to yourself? Love is easy once you understand it Love love love yourself
I don’t really agree with this tbh. I don’t think loving yourself or not is going to make love difficult or not difficult unless it’s the kind where you can’t love anything, or you’re to the point where you can’t accept others love. People who have been hurt and/or can’t love themselves (hopefully not forever) can honestly sometimes love the best imo
My love for others has made me want to relearn how to love myself. I don't fuçk with that "you can't love others until you love yourself" bs. self-love is very difficult to achieve; loving others is easy to do.
V true The whole idea of loving others “not” being able to happen if you don’t love yourself is honestly annoying because I’ve only been able to find liking and even sometimes a bit of love for myself by loving my bf and vice versa so uh lol