It really depends on if you're a quitting ass pu.ssy or someone who's brave enough to get off your ass even if you fall hard and embarrass yourself. Time will heal you. There's people claiming to be hurt but dating new people every month using the same lies. Most people don't care and don't get hurt, they just don't get their way and want to start pointing fingers.
I've met females who've never been used or abused before and some who've only been used and degraded and bashed by other females and they still play men. No one is blaming them but guilt belongs where it is due. I'm not offended nor insecure that the male dominance is "threatened."
For example, I admit, in the beginning it was heartless males playing women acting like, "I fu.cked her and ger friends, bro." Now its girls bragging about sucking up every guy they can while be in a relationship. Guys have changed a lot more from that. There's way more sensitive guys now.
Men cheat, women cheat. Falling in love is a risky affair. Any form of attachment is bound to hurt you eventually. Nothing lasts forever, the ones you love leave you or leave the world but eventually you have to lose them. So if youre getting attached, be prepared to get hurt, but cherish the moments while they last
LMAO damn, who hurt you? Don’t spout that bullshit, man. Just because you might’ve been exposed to things that don’t work out doesn’t mean it never will. You don’t speak for every couple that’s still strong and together, or any other forms of attachment that still last. Back up fam.
This world is plagued by selective reading. No one hurt me. Im not saying attachment is bad or good. Im no one to judge. "the ones you love either leave you or leave the world" is what i said. I have no idea how you interpret that as 'the ones u love will always leave you' but calm down fam. P.s i have been with one woman for 8 years and we're still going strong.
Pfft it’s 4am, I know nothing of being calm. However, having an outlook like that is no good. It ends up causing too much focus on “when are they going to leave me”, whether it be them deciding to just leave or the world taking them from you. I used to have the same mindset, I got obsessed with knowing everyone would leave, so I cut myself away from everyone. Sure, not everyone becomes as focused, but I know many who do and this isolate themselves. It’s not good to have that mindset, though that’s my opinion. It’s better to think of it as “this person will never truly leave me” because you’ll always have a part of them within you, especially if the world is what takes them.
4am isnt a great time to be having this discussion lol. But I see where youre coming from and agree with part of what you say. You're opinion is as good as mine, we just come from different school of thoughts. However, I did end my argument with "be prepared to get hurt if you're getting attached, be prepared to get hurt but cherish the moments while they last." so I'm not really saying you should cutt off from other people and be isolated. It's not feasible. Not everyone can be the Buddha. But having the thought that youll lose everything youre attached to eventually at the back of your mind and not letting it ruin the present for you is an art anyone can master if they tried. Live in the moment but know what's coming
so truee... when you love someone, it's not always a bed of roses...if both sides are really into each other, they'll be able to show their own vulnerabilities to each other and they could go through anything together...otherwise, honesty and trust are not shown and that's just eff'ed up it's what i was doing...and still am cherishing those moments even tho i lost him for a while now
Its time to make new moments to cherish. Happiness has direct correlation with how fast you can move on
No. They really don't even get hurt like I've stated, they just get upset cause things don't go how they want them to. And for those who are actually victims full recover by chasing the next person or by focusing on themselves and doing better.
Can you tell me how to make my cat love me again? He usually loves me the most out of everybody in our house, but the last few months he's started to hate me. He attacks my feet all the time for no reason. And he jumps up on the arm of my chair and bites my hair. He's biting my hair right now if fact. I think my hormones make me smell different right now, and he hates it. How do I make him love me again?
How do you make him love you again? Take him to China... he'll learn to appreciate life more and the people around him