In every person you know there is a person you don't know. Before forming an opinion about a person and spreading that to other people like gossips we should actually interact with them and get to know them. Also, if someone has always been kind to you but for some reasons doesn't like some other individual should you forget his kindness and love and hate that person as well coz some other person said so ? sowwy too busy to bbcode and add gifs coz of life
Sometimes I look up to people/friends with people/dislike people and then stop when I realize what a vindictive/sweet person they really are. People are onions. You see the good/bad and uncover some ugliness, shade, or something good. Not everyone or anything is black and white. They’re gray and you have to decide if you fûck with all the gray areas to know if you accept the person for what they truly are and watch out for some that will turn on you. I like to base this opinion from what I’ve gathered from how they treat me or do to other people.?
I always try to get to know people personally before judging them. However, if they already have a set opinion about me beforehand and treat me negatively, then I don't bother trying.
Really great topic you brought up, Vash! Right away I thought of novelist Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's TedTalk called The Dangers of a Single Story. She basically emphasized the importance of not accepting preconceived notions each time we receive a piece of information about someone/something, and to open our mind to allow the fact that we don't know the whole story to guide our thoughts, behaviors, and actions. However, it is indeed also hard to erase first impressions. We can try but imo we can't ever really get rid of initial or biased thoughts fully. Keep marching onward guys!
Wow. I'm trying to be positive starting this morning but look at this bs. This is funny. As usual, you PIMD ppl amuse me. You're a hypocrite, you love ass-kissing and wanna gain the sympathy of PIMD ppl. Lol at that first sentence. Everyone knows that + it's internet. Why would you expect someone from the internet to fully know you or you to fully know them? Does your life revolve around it? Do you take this game/the internet seriously and make all your friends here as your real life friend? Hhmm? Is that the purpose of your ass-kissing?. Again, you're a hypocrite, Vash. See, you care about what other ppl thinks about you. You can't even move on about what happened the other day and you even created a thread regarding the issue. If you don't care and you're busy, don't bother creating a thread. Funny that you didn't add gifs on your thread and claims you're too busy to add when most of your replies are gifs. Stop pretending fool.
I try to be friends with people before judging them tbh. And no. I would never stop being friends with someone just because some certain friend hates them. That's their problem. IDGAF, I'll still talk to the person.
How do you hate the person who has done nothing to you? The person who is always been there being kind and good to you? I mean if this person was hated by someone that is close to me, then thats their drama they needed to solve. And I do think that only kids does that. I mean just because your friend hate someone who has never wronged you then you should hate him/her too.
I give everyone a chance. Ask anyone in SS (besides Jake)they can come to my wall and say hi at anytime
1)I never said that it's limited to pimd. 2)Yes, I do care about what others think about me and sometimes that does bother me. 3)This thread wasn't created coz of our convo. the other day and I have been making threads like this before you became active in forums.
Thanks to everyone for replying so far it helps understand how people process different situations and form opinions about others looking at one side of the story.
Jake tryna hit you from da back though till you cf quick... Wait, you're a guy. You don't cf that way, or do you? Nvm. I don't want to know. My innocence!