Petty question

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by ltachi, May 7, 2018.

  1. sorry but what
     

  2. See this is a good response
     
  3. This is literally happening with me and my sorta not really ex. I ignore him all the time because he does that to me. Why not give them a taste of their own medicine?? If they don’t like it maybe they should stop doing it to you.

    ??‍♀️??‍♀️??‍♀️
     
  4. I did exactly this and instead I was told I was overreacting. I agree with this, but guys are too stubborn to talk about it.
     
  5. First of all, if you two don't make means to officialize your relationship status, then what's the point in trying to act petty and claim that they don't give enough attention to you?

    There is pettiness that can be hilarious, but honestly, if you can't confirm with that person if you really want to be their bf/gf, then I don't think they deserve your love, period.

    For me, the best way is to sit down and have a really deep and serious conversation. You ask if they want to be with you, and only accept answers YES or NO. Getting a 'maybe' or 'I'm not sure' deserves a slap in the face, cause that person is obviously too immature to make up their mind.

    Please don't drag yourself down with pettiness and expectations. It's better being alone and happy then having to worry about someone else who won't love you entirely. You're not some toy they can grab off the shelf and play with, you have emotions and dignity to protect.


    tldr; that pettiness isn't acceptable, leave that person if he/she doesn't make an attempt to make you feel loved.
     
  6. Sorry but who are you?

    @JOPO JUST TALK TO HER/HIM/IT
     
  7. f ur partner isn't their four yu every minute of za day they gata g0 bruh, hell, f it takes ur soulmate more than 1 minute 2 reply 2 ur txt they r cheating on u and zat is a fax, you gota do wut u gota do boi
     
  8. We have different opinions but for me, I would still greet her "Good Morning". I mean, maybe she is busy.
     


  9. Most can read a txt, fb im, line message without it showing as read since u can see the notification and usually the full message without actually opening it...

    if the last message ur friend sent was a good night message responding to a good night message... yea there's nothing to respond to the next day. Unless there's more to that message...

    Instead of being petty they should have sent her/him a message asking a question like how's ur day going, or what r ur plans for today? That would require a response. Especially from a person that "likes u".
     
  10. Agreed...
    also, i decided to talk this topic over with my boyfriend.
    He agreed with me in that there are times we get busy (yes with things as stupid as sharing cute animal videos on facebook or maybe in my case, PIMD) but we dont have to talk 24/7 to know that we obviously still love and care about eachother... sometimes we just want breaks to do stupid things.

    If one of us ever had any issues with that (or issues with anything tbh) we'd just talk about it and figure out how to compromise so that we can understand and respect one person's want for some time alone to do random stupid crap and the other persons want to be talking every waking moment of the day.
     
  11. I feel like that’s an appropriate response, like she could’ve at least sent a one-word text or gm or something esp since she was on SM throughout the day. If she wanted to hit you up she would’ve...but then again being petty complicates things bc instead of directly confronting her about your issue, you’re waiting for her to correct something she didn’t necessarily know she did..so it isn’t v helpful long term
     
  12. I'd call my gf if i know she is online but not replying my messages. But ofc depends on the situation
     
  13. They're 99.9% cheating on you in some form of shape if they do dat, or act like what this person just suggested. Keep them around if you want to waste your time.
     
  14. I feel like you're not the little fish I used to kno, you've grown up a lot. You're a big fish now... they grow up so fast
     
  15. She's busy getting fucked by another guy or girl
     
  16. ^
    Tbh if I like a person and they don't respond after being on for quite a while, the minute they message me I respond back as if nothing happened. Like I tried to be Petty one time, I failed. :(
     
  17. Classic reason ?
     
  18. I'd lose interest if they do that
     
  19. Rt
     
  20. Yeah but like being petty ain't gonna do shii tho, it's just gonna make the whole thing messy af??‍♀️