This is really surprising! I don't think it's mostly a french thing, but white features always has been considered to be part of the overall beauty standards. I know that light skinned black girls are prefered, same as for spanish people, they like fair skin, blue eyes, freckles. And for asians too, high nose bridge, bigger eyes, kind of looking half white. Those are always considered more beautiful in my experience. (Not my opinion tho) I just feel like the average guys celebrity crush gonna be like Emilia Clarke or something
Oh i feel ya. I'm not sure if guys who consider beauty to come in every shapes and size are common, do you think most guys are like you or not?
Danai Gurira and Amara La Negra draw my attention... I always wished Aaliyah and I were closer in age and could spend some time together... but you know
I can’t say if most guys are like me or not. I would like to think... “Hell, no... I’m unique af” but that may not be the case. I just think sometimes you have “nice to look at” and you have “nice to be with” and we try to get as close as we can to both without compromising too much... or settling for the time being, while looking for something “more our speed”. I’m completely against the serial dating trend. ... and I also forgot Kerry Washington up there.
These women are beautiful, i noticed they were all more on the mature side. It's not very common to find people who have those preferences, it's refreshing to see something different. I like your interpretation of what guys might feel about girls, it's kind of reassuring in a way, puts less pressure in looking the best or worrying about what we're not. As a girl (i dunno if others feel like that too) i always thought that guys didn't like asian girls or they prefered only a certain type of girls i wasn't, and i was bound to attract ONLY guys into asian girls, or whatever the way i was portraying myself. I also thought guys would always prefer skinnier than me, but that whoever liked me would just put up with it because they liked my personality, without being in their preferences. I kinda hope i was wrong and that most guys would just appreciate every kind of beauty. And huh i also agree with the dating thing. People should slow down on that lol, they'd stop complaining about bad relationship and how the opposite séx is trash
I like Alpha Females... and most of the famous ones have matured. I mean Halle Berry is gorgeous, but so is Melissa Riso and Zhang Ziyi in her own way. I also like a woman with a sense of humor and wit that can be secure and comfortable in her own skin, like Kristen Wiig and Tina Fey. I don’t care what race you are as long as you are confident in yourself.
I think it's an age gap thing. Younger guys want thick and curvy, while older men want skinny and tight. You can't help sagging skin and wrinkles when you get older. I think this is why men prefer younger ladies (skin tight) in their older days and older women (thick, curvy, mature) in their younger days.
Ooohh interesting. Do you like how alpha females behave too ? How would you imagine a relationship with them, would it be both of you very independent and working as a team or more like her dominating ? You don't have to reply if it's too personal ? And OOF Melissa Riso
The personality is most of it and we would take turns dominating in that sense... if you really want to take it all the way there in this convo... it’s ok I can handle a mature conversation about relations. I want someone that understands that I don’t gravitate towards weakness or signs of weakness, excuses, dwelling over shortcomings. I want someone who gets their strength from within and stands up for what they believe in. I want someone who takes responsibily in the community and will provide regardless if she has been provided for or not and isn’t quick to back down. I do not want someone who submits to me because she is “supposed to”. I would rather have someone that allows me control only for the purpose of satisfying my desire to feel like a king but never truly gives up her own power and never truly takes any power away from me.
Fascinating questions and far more fascinating responses Have any guys ever had to say “I have a girlfriend” just so a girl will leave them alone?
Yes. I admit that when I was young I told some lies to avoid crushing people. I also made a mistake by pretending a friend was a girlfriend to get another one to back off and it back fired because the friend caught feelings. It was stupid.
Quite often actually, I’m not an outgoing person, and I dislike forming that sort of relationship so I just use that as an easy way out of situations that may spark that
No man that admires his power wants to admit his weakness to his potential worst enemy. Sometimes you convince yourself you love nothing so that you have nothing to lose.
I have done that too at some point I guess.At this point in life I would genuinely tell the girl if I don't like the girl coz that's the right thing to do but yeah when I was stupid I too told a girl that I was already in a relationship so that I don't break her heart or something.