What do you gals think of guys approaching you in the gym? Are you cool with them starting a conversation with you and then asking for your phone number? I was at the gym today, and I saw this guy check out this girl for a fat minute. Then he approached her and got her number. How the **** did he do this? I need his secrets.
Honestly it depends if the guy is attractive to me or not. Also i'd rather have a work out buddy than anything else if i'm at the gym, so if he wants anything else than working out he's wasting his time. Aaannnd lastly i'm honestly awkward with ppl who approach me, so it's not a great start. If the guy was unattractive i'd say it's his talking skill and confidence If he's attractive, well... He doesn't need to do much. Other than that she'd probably friendzone him until she discovers he's dating material or until she dies
Gather up some courage and just ask for her number that’s how. The worst she can say is “no” or “I have a boyfriend.” Just got to get over that mind block that prevents you from poppin’ the question.
Don't even do none of those, just ask this simple question... "What dat mouth do?" And she'll love you long time and do some squats with you helping her. You'll live all of your happily ever after fantasies too
Hell na! Lol when I go to the gym I GO TO THE GYM I’m sweaty and out of breath killin it til I can’t go anymore if some dude came up to me messing up my flow I’d look at him funny now if I was on my way to the water fountain or the massage chairs yeah sure come up to me and try your thing but definitely not while working out some girls actually put in work at the gym and aren’t trying to pick up lol
I mean, just start a conversation. If she's using a certain machine just go up and ask what it's for even if you already know. Ask if it has given her results. Ask how often she goes. Find a way to ask if she's interested in having a gym buddy if you guys go around the same times, and ask for her number. With small talk in between. Just a possible scenario but it's not difficult starting a conversation with a random person. Be ready to face rejection ever so often though. Gotta know how to deal with that too. If she says no just say something like "oh no problem, nice talking to you anyway, see you around" or something. She might change her mind as you walk away (typically only happens in movies) or she might just continue with her workout. If she's not interested, she's not interested and you will only make it worse if you insist. IMO, of course.
You could compliment her on something too. Like her shoes or some random crap. Or just walk by and mention something like "wow you're killing it! I wish I had your motivation" or just some dumb crap to start talking.
I'd love that. I love talking to the guys at the gym and hearing about their journies. It really inspires me. About the number thing, I'm not single but if I was I'd give it a shot. I like a guy with confidence (not arrogance)
Only lesbians get offended when men hit on them in the gym. Even married ladies don't get offended, everyone appreciates a compliment....except lesbians, they're the one's who will write blog posts about how inappropriate it is.
Ask to be work out uddies first then see if it goes from there.. Work out buddies are amazing people. =)